NewfieEd Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Hi, a friend introduced me to his good friend last year when she was in our hometown on vacation, they went to university together. So I haven't seen her for a year, and she is home again. I got her number and texted her, we have been talking pretty good, she told me to meet her at a popular local bar tonight. When I showed up she was in deep conversation with a guy, leaned in and what looked like pretty serious convo. I left after a bit didn't say hi, she wrote me and asked why I didn't come say hi to her. I just said I wasn't feeling the bar scene tonight. She said ok we will have to meet up before I go back. She sent me a few smiley faces, etc. my problem is I like her but I'm trying to figure out if she is just being friend or she is interested ?? Help please
StalwartMind Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Impossible to tell from that situation. Did she even eye you at the bar? If she didn't, then it's anyone's guess they may of been talking about as well. Assuming things is in general is one great way set yourself up for disappointment and misjudge events. You should probably of ordered a drink and waited if you didn't feel like disturbing, or perhaps of made yourself visibly present so she would of noticed you. If the atmosphere and noise in the room is loud, it can be hard to hear any conversation and you do need to lean in. I'm just unsure if she noticed you or not, that might change things somewhat, but if you agree to meet, you should of walked up to her and said hi.
oldshirt Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 . my problem is I like her but I'm trying to figure out if she is just being friend or she is interested ?? Help please You'll only find that out if you put in the effort and make an honest attempt to interact with her on a personal level. You choked and wussed out. Stop that. Always give it your best shot and give it your all until you are either successful or get a hard rejection. You took yourself out of the equation on this one. That is the ultimate fail. Your problem here is you are wanting a guarantee before even putting in the effort. You are never going to get that. You find out by giving it your all. 1
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