spggd Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Here's the deal. I like one of my friends, and I know that he likes me. However, I work with the mother of this guy, and my father works with his father. Also, I am going to be spending half the summer in a foreign country, and only have 8 weeks at home before I go back to college (which would be about 3 hours away from where he is). I don't think either of us really wnat a long distance relationship. It just seems like everything came at the wrong time. I think we should just stay friends for the time being, considering a relationship would be a hassle at this point, but I know there will probably be tension between us, because we will both want more. I guess all I have to ask is how do I deal with this tension, and keep it from getting the best of me, or is it okay for it to get the best of me, or what?
Marshbear Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 I assume your talking about sexual tension. There will always be S/T when you are frustrated with the relationship. Have you even kissed? The only way would be to avoid each other so you are not tempted, don't be alone with each other and hang out with friends to keep your mind off your relationship concerns. I guess the other option is to do the deed....
Author spggd Posted May 6, 2005 Author Posted May 6, 2005 Haha, I guess you could say sexual tension, but no, we haven't even kissed yet, so maybe "kissing tension"? But thank you for the suggestion. Very good idea. In a way, I guess it's good that we have a lot of mutual friends. Then it won't be awkward to hang out altogether.
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