Orije Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 This is just a short question and I would like some advice please. My girlfriend has been away on vacation with her family for 9 days and is coming back home tomorrow. We have been texting each other a lot and have skyped and she says that she loves me. What she is planning to do is when she arrives home after the long flight she will unpack at home and come to surprise me at my house, but won't tell me what time she will show up. What she doesn't know is I will be at the airport baggage pickup with a rose in hand ready to surprise her. She told me her flight won't arrive until like 1pm yet her family is telling me that they will arrive at 8am. Is it bad that she made a little lie to me? Maybe she doesn't want me to know the exact time she is home so she can surprise me? I heard that if someone can make little lies that they can lie about bigger things. Should I say something or let it go? Thank you!!!
Keenly Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 This is just a short question and I would like some advice please. My girlfriend has been away on vacation with her family for 9 days and is coming back home tomorrow. We have been texting each other a lot and have skyped and she says that she loves me. What she is planning to do is when she arrives home after the long flight she will unpack at home and come to surprise me at my house, but won't tell me what time she will show up. What she doesn't know is I will be at the airport baggage pickup with a rose in hand ready to surprise her. She told me her flight won't arrive until like 1pm yet her family is telling me that they will arrive at 8am. Is it bad that she made a little lie to me? Maybe she doesn't want me to know the exact time she is home so she can surprise me? I heard that if someone can make little lies that they can lie about bigger things. Should I say something or let it go? Thank you!!! Don't show up at the airport. What she is saying is that she needs a few hours to probably just lay down and relax at home for a while. Let her unwind, don't try and be all up in her business the second she gets back home. She is probably physically and mentally exhausted, and won't have the patience right away to be around some you. I'm not saying I'm for sure right, but caution might be a good idea in this case. 2
Author Orije Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 Yes I understand, but its a 9 hour flight home and she said she will get some rest. Then when she comes to see me that she would like to cuddle and sleep since the jet lag will throw her off. Me and her family planned for me to surprise her and said she will be extremely happy and might cry when I see her. I just thought it was kinda weird that she would lie about the time. Maybe I'm just making it a huge deal for no reason
kismetkismet Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 I'd probably agree with Keenly. Personally when I just get off a long flight I just want a shower and a nap. If you haven't been dating that long she may want to be more rested and done up when she sees you after a long patch. I know that when I see a boyfriend after not seeing him for a stretch I do kind of like to get extra cute for when I see him again. That said - the romantic gesture may override her need for a fresh coat of lipstick 1
Author Orije Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 Thank you for your responses! I will just wait at home with a smile on my face and a rose in my hand until she arrives. My main question is, is it true that someone who lies a little tends to lie a lot? I hear that a lot and in this case in her lie a reason to be upset or no? I dislike liars a lot. Thank you
xcupid Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Take it in context. Don't blow these little "lies" out of proportion. She did it to surprise you. That's it. Nothing more. Let it go. And be happy she thinks so much about you to want to surprise you and make you happy. Good luck. 1
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