Auspecial Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 He is one of the few ex's that I would be interested in "catching up" with. Also, we had very strong chemistry back then ten years ago. I am pretty convinced it would be that way again. But, realistically speaking I don't think it would work out the second time around either, and I think maybe I should not expose myself to that by making myself vulnerable. On one hand, I feel like it would be fun to re-connect, and I am going to being his town for business so it would be nice to hang out with someone I know instead of the hotel room. On the other hand, I'm not confident I could say no to doing "other things," because of our chemistry we had ten years ago, and the chemistry in email and text. lol. And I don't know if I feel like making myself to vulnerable to what I believe would end up being casual sx. The reasons it would not work: 1. He is not divorced yet, and this is why we split ten years ago- b/c he was separated and decided to try again with the wife. 2. He has admitted that he just got out of a 5 month with someone he still misses. 3. He lives 2.5 hours away and I don't like ldr's. 4. He happens to like really slender women. I am about 5 lbs more than then, which shouldn't be a big deal but he is very body-conscious. On the third hand, a little fun never hurt anyone? What do you think?
smackie9 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Why are you thinking so far ahead??? It's very possible he just wants to have lunch to just catch up.....that's it. 2
d0nnivain Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 He's not divorced yet. Stay away. You know it didn't work then & probably wouldn't work now. Think of something more productive to do rather than going backwards. 1
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