norudder Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 If somebody is only doing something because you want them to not because its sincere, does that matter? Or is just the fact that they're doing it evidence enough? A guy buying flowers for example. He wouldn't think to do it on his own to make his wife happy. But if she says I need flowers to feel loved and he says well that's not how I express love, so buying you flowers may make you feel loved but its not really coming naturally from my heart so if you want me to give you my "fake" love then okay..... Is it better to learn to "hear" the language the other person is giving to you in, or to "speak" a persons language?
autumnnight Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 If you sincerely care about your partner, you will learn to express love to them in the way THEY need it. There is nothing insincere about doing what your partner needs. And there is no need to point out to your partner while you are doing it that it isn't the way YOU feel love. 2
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