biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Hey guys and girls I'm back chatting to my ex again anyway it's tough going sometimes she flirts and then pulls backs I would not hear from her for days anyway a strange thing started to happen lately.I'm not friends with her on Facebook anymore but noticed that anytime I checked my messages I get an invite from her asking her to join her Facebook chat messenger which I don't have installed.I text her yesterday and asked her did she send out the invites to me she ignored my text but hasn't said anything when we chatted before.I get the invites at strange days 1 on a Friday 1 on a Saturday and then 1 One a Sunday then they stop and start again on the following weekend which I find very strange. Just wondering is she watching my page or is she playing games?any advice please on this.
Starks Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 you are overanalyzing breadcrumbs and wasting your energy 2
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 you are overanalyzing breadcrumbs and wasting your energy Thank you for your advice . 1
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 How long you guys been broken up for? broken up now two months.
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 You shouldn't be in any form of contact at all, until frankly, you are indifferent about what she's doing and why. To be in touch with your ex still, after she dumped you, is really crazy, and you need to go No Contact. This isn't about what she's doing and why. It's about what you are doing, and why.
Holmes85 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 biggles6087, Do you know what a sign of reconciliation is? She calls you because she needs to talk to you, anything other than that is just pure game playing reserved for grammar school kids. In short yes she's playing games.
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 You shouldn't be in any form of contact at all, until frankly, you are indifferent about what she's doing and why. To be in touch with your ex still, after she dumped you, is really crazy, and you need to go No Contact. This isn't about what she's doing and why. It's about what you are doing, and why. thank you I think i will go no contact now she wanted to meet up with me and all even said she come down to mine for a few days but nothing ever comes of it.
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 biggles6087, Do you know what a sign of reconciliation is? She calls you because she needs to talk to you, anything other than that is just pure game playing reserved for grammar school kids. In short yes she's playing games. Thanks Holmes thought I was in with a chance to sort things out but doesn't look that way now.
foolinlove79 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 I think it just makes it a lot harder. My ex bu with me a couple months ago too but still contacts me. I think it might be to relieve his guilt a bit and just cos he was used to having me in his life. Some people dont seem to get that a bu is that. You break apart totally and really are aupposed to go separate ways. Any contact just drags it out and makes it harder. In my case my ex is actually seeing someone else now too so what he is doing contacting me i have no idea. If you can just cut her off.
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 I think it just makes it a lot harder. My ex bu with me a couple months ago too but still contacts me. I think it might be to relieve his guilt a bit and just cos he was used to having me in his life. Some people dont seem to get that a bu is that. You break apart totally and really are aupposed to go separate ways. Any contact just drags it out and makes it harder. In my case my ex is actually seeing someone else now too so what he is doing contacting me i have no idea. If you can just cut her off. Anytime i try and walk away she puts on this guilt trip and starts telling me I'm a great person and all this kind of stuff then she said about hanging out over the summer that she would like to come down.It's really driving me mad cause I really like this girl a lot I'm not sleeping now.
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Anytime i try and walk away she puts on this guilt trip and starts telling me I'm a great person and all this kind of stuff then she said about hanging out over the summer that she would like to come down.It's really driving me mad cause I really like this girl a lot I'm not sleeping now. She only gets away with it because you let her....! She's messing with you! Deny permission and go complete No Contact. And remember, if she tries to get to you, she's not breaking 'No Contact'. Only YOU can do that, by responding.
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 She only gets away with it because you let her....! She's messing with you! Deny permission and go complete No Contact. And remember, if she tries to get to you, she's not breaking 'No Contact'. Only YOU can do that, by responding. Thanks Tara going to be tough one but I will def give the no contact ago after today.I'm sick of her games now to be honest.
Author biggles6087 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 Well that it is it done now and this time for good fed up with the games.
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