Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by Monday EEESH! She's fishing for compliments! Fisher: "That guy hit on me!" Tanbark: "uh...cool..." Fisher: "Why would he hit on me? I'm only in a sweater? *insert add ins* I must be really really HOT huh!" Tanbark: "Probably wanted to get laid" Fisher: " " EXACTLY. I should be like, "Woman, I read LoveShack. Your mindgames have no effect on me, foolish mortal."
whichwayisup Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Well I know ALPHA is going to smack me for this one, but she already knows I'd be up for a relationship with her. I think she might be getting a little frustrated that I'm not totally all over her jock though. Look forward to reading his rebutle... Like I could forget that I'd love to see ya actually DO that... I should be like, "Woman, I read LoveShack. Your mindgames have no effect on me, foolish mortal." That's a great line! OH YEAH?? WELL ON LS they say....(insert whatever...) or ON LS, ALPHA SAYS..SO that is the way it is! LMAO!
EC Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 EXACTLY. I should be like, "Woman, I read LoveShack. Your mindgames have no effect on me, foolish mortal." LMAO TANBARK you have found the "Secret weapon" lol Please do not disclose this information to any other guys! Thank you!
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup I'd love to see ya actually DO that... Ok, but be sure to stand back and give my boys room. James Westfall and Dr. Kenneth Noisewater mean business. Originally posted by whichwayisup That's a great line! OH YEAH?? WELL ON LS they say....(insert whatever...) or ON LS, ALPHA SAYS..SO that is the way it is! LMAO! Yeah.. "You may have big t!ts, but I have ALPHAMALE's advice."
whichwayisup Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Yeah.. "You may have big t!ts, but I have ALPHAMALE's advice." :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: I'm dying laughing here...Oh man I think you've totally cheered me up! Give yer balls a wee pat from me! lmao!
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Give yer balls a wee pat from me! lmao! They say 'thank you'.
alphamale Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Well I know ALPHA is going to smack me for this one, but she already knows I'd be up for a relationship with her. I think she might be getting a little frustrated that I'm not totally all over her jock though. whenever she mentions other men being interested or hitting on her don't even acknowledge it. At most you would say "oh, that's nice" that is how you play her game. then she'll start wondering why you are not that intested in her but all those other dudes are. aha aha ahahha hha haha hah aha ahahaahah aa ahhaahahahaaa ha ha hahha ahAHHA
whichwayisup Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 aha aha ahahha hha haha hah aha ahahaahah aa ahhaahahahaaa ha ha hahha ahAHHA Scary thing is, I bet you ACTUALLY DO do a laugh like that outloud, don't ya??
CurlyIam Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 She might have said she didn't want a relationship... maybe she's just unsecure. My bf does stuff like that, but in a different way. He tells me when girls check him up, but he's got a big smile on his face and I can see it kinda boosts his ego. I'm fine with it, I don't get into this type of competition, he knows he'd lose soooo badly, ! About your "date": a few possibilities: a. She has been with a guy in a previous relationship who told her to tell him everything and the habit "stok" on her. b. She wants to be honest with you - as in, if she kept things from you, she'd feel guilty c. She's used to being adored and doesn't understand why you're not cracking up d. she wants a bit more of your attention Pretty girls do get unsecure at times. IT's not a good idea to get into an ego-contest over who's getting more attention from the public, it will hurt both your feelings. My suggestion: next time she's doing that, tell her "that's because you're a cutie" and give her a smootchie! It will calm her down! Don't say on the spot "really? females are checking me out too", you look a bit unsecure. Maybe you're not complimenting her enough and that's why she's so insecure. Woo her a bit, she'll forget the audience and focuss on the main character, this you can be sure of!
CurlyIam Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale whenever she mentions other men being interested or hitting on her don't even acknowledge it. At most you would say "oh, that's nice" that is how you play her game. then she'll start wondering why you are not that intested in her but all those other dudes are. aha aha ahahha hha haha hah aha ahahaahah aa ahhaahahahaaa ha ha hahha ahAHHA And this is why alpha shall stay perpetually single !!! no offence, A, you know I love ya!
Pocky Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Well I know ALPHA is going to smack me for this one, but she already knows I'd be up for a relationship with her. I think she might be getting a little frustrated that I'm not totally all over her jock though. Sacrificing looks for intelligence, again, Tan? Tsk Tsk.
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky Sacrificing looks for intelligence, again, Tan? Tsk Tsk. As much as I try to be a good guy, I must admit that I'm a sucker for big boobs.
Pocky Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 As much as I try to be a good guy, I must admit that I'm a sucker for big boobs. And all they do is get your into trouble.
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky And all they do is get your into trouble. Yeah, but whaddyagonnado....
clynn Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Yeah, really, my reason for sharing this info would be because I have been conditioned / programmed as such from an exbf. It is REALLY hard to separate what we were conditioned with from our exes and what new people want. You don't really know unless it is shared. I think reassuring her is a good way to go about it, rather than being nasty or playing games. Then, if it is getting annoying, just come right out and ask her why she does it...OR even better yet....tell her it bothers you adn why. That's what I think, for what it is worth.
alphamale Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by clynn I think reassuring her is a good way to go about it, rather than being nasty or playing games. naah...i would recommend being nasty and playing games. women respond to that much better than "talk" and "reason".
RoseyLife Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 in response to the original question: insecurity. she might feel as though she is losing you so she (sub?)consciously tries the easiest head game around: making you feel jealous.
Naive Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 So I've been seeing this girl for the past several weeks. She doesn't want a serious relationship right now so it's been decided that we're just casually dating. Things are cool for the most part, but she has this habit of telling me whenever guys hit on her. For example: 1. We were out at a bar, she went over to buy a round, and when she came back she told me how the bartender was hitting on her. 2. We were at the horse races, she went to the bathroom while I went to get us beers, and when we met back up, she was telling me how guys were hitting on her while she was walking around. 3. She tells me about how guys hit on her when she's out with her friends without me. Now, I know she's fishing for something, but I don't know what. Jealousy? Compliments? What's her motivation for doing this? I know she's trying to get some sort of reaction, so I purposely give her no reaction and just say "Cool" with a smile. After which she'll reiterate the point a couple more times but I just let it slide. I'm just not sure why she would do this other than to get more attention (she's the type of girl who has a bagillion male friends). She wants you to know that if you don't act right there are plenty of other men who will!!! OR she wants you to get jealous. Or she is very vain.
EC Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 I just think she might have said she didnt want a serious relatinship..hung out with you for a while.. likes you and wants more from you know. She doesnt know how to say it..so shes trying to get a reaction from you..she wants you to know she could have other guys but she choses to hang with you...
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by EC I just think she might have said she didnt want a serious relatinship..hung out with you for a while.. likes you and wants more from you know. She doesnt know how to say it..so shes trying to get a reaction from you..she wants you to know she could have other guys but she choses to hang with you... Well that's just retarded if that's the case.
Cecelius Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Ok. Well we're more than just friends, we're just not together. This last time, after I just gave her a "cool" in response, she kept it up and asked, "Why would guys do that? Why would they say 'hey baby' to me? I'm just in a sweater!" So I just smiled and said, "Well they probably just wanted to get laid" and left it at that. I'm not sure if that was a good response or not. Brilliant response! I gotta use that. It's a dopey girl test to show (1) she's got social proof of her value (2) to see if she can get a rise out of you (ego) and (3) to see if you're cool enough to stand your ground and not give a rat's @ss.
KissMyTiara Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by EC I just think she might have said she didnt want a serious relatinship..hung out with you for a while.. likes you and wants more from you know. She doesnt know how to say it..so shes trying to get a reaction from you..she wants you to know she could have other guys but she choses to hang with you... I second that.
EC Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Well that's just retarded if that's the case. Not retarded lol but a Girl Thang!
Author tanbark813 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 Originally posted by EC Not retarded lol but a Girl Thang! You people will be the death of me.
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