tcd421 Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 Been in a ldr for a year and a half. The woman I am with is originally from the area I live in and knew her before she left the state 8 years ago. 1 1/2 years ago we reconnected on facebook quockly exchange cell #'s amd 6 months later the idea of getfing together romantically came up. We have talked via phone or text almost every day but it has become less frequent on her end as this coming friday she is coming back for a visit. She lives almost 700 miles away. In fact she is in my state right now about 30 milez away. she told me as much 2 days ago a family member died and while I have heard from her I wonder I will see her before she goes back? She said she still plans to be back next week. Was supposed to happen last night but did not get word she was cancelling that. Am I just over thinking things or should I be concerned?
justwhoiam Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 She's not the woman you're with. If she were, you would have seen her in 1.5 years, and she wouldn't miss a chance to meet you while being 30 miles from you.
Author tcd421 Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 (edited) The biggest red flag happened a few weeks said she was no longer recieving texts from me had always claimed bad service where she lives. Well using an app I downloaded to my phone I created a number to text her from her area code but did not tell her so till after she replied to me. For me that was a test and a trap.I am ready to cut bait witb her. Edited July 13, 2015 by tcd421
madjac74 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 If you don't trust her and have to go to sneaky tactics to prove her wrong then yes you should definitely "cut bait with her" I was in an ldr where the things she did boggled my mind. Such as travelling through my area but making every excuse not to visit me. You have good reason to be paranoid and good reason to find a local woman.
Author tcd421 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Well she is still in state after far as I know has no intentions of seeing me so the plams we made for next week were pure bs on her part.. she will not even talk about coming to see me. I need out of this.
d0nnivain Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Pennsylvania is a huge state. She's near you for a funeral, not for fun. Let her grieve for heaven's sake.
kendahke Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 The biggest red flag happened a few weeks said she was no longer recieving texts from me had always claimed bad service where she lives. Well using an app I downloaded to my phone I created a number to text her from her area code but did not tell her so till after she replied to me. For me that was a test and a trap.I am ready to cut bait witb her. Then do so. She sounds like she's changed her mind about seeing you or being involved with you. You should put her number on block so you both can get on with your lives.
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