Calidude6 Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 So I was with my ex for 2 in a half years. She broke up with me and left with a broken heart. It's been taking a little longer than expected but as I think back on the relationship...was it possible I wasn't truly in love? When I say that, I look back at the affectionate part where I didn't always show my feelings and want towards her. She even said at times she felt like a friend more than a girlfriend. I became too comfortable and I need to learn the balance of fighting and being natural with someone and not get too comfortable. Beginning of the relationship was good, few months later on I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with her but stuck through, opened up my heart more and fell for her a lot more. Then I got really comfortable and stopped doing the things I did for her to fall for me. So I'm wondering if I was truly in love with her? I believe I was but why didn't I show my affections and feelings as much to her to let her know how much she meant to me? I think it had to do with her not being as sweet to me that let me get too that comfort stage and just hanging out without showing my true feelings. Good reason why she probably left, didn't feel that love and affection which is why I blame myself for the break up. I wanted to marry her but I was just too comfortable and stopped being that boyfriend I know I am. I guess in the future, take that wrong doing per say and fine the balance? I want to be comfortable with someone but not too comfortable where I stopped doing the good things I do.
Satu Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 Be exactly the same person on the outside that you are on the inside. Everything else follows from that. 1
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