Radpivo Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) I had been interested in a girl at work. She left for a new job and I met with her for lunch about a month later as I had an appointment in her area. We had a a good lunch and towards the end I expressed I'd like to see her socially in the next several weekends. the following Saturday I texted her about planning to meetup in the next several weeks and she didn't respond for about a week. When she's responded she apologized and said she had been really busy that weekend helping family member move and only just catching up with things, but didn't respond to my query about meeting up. I figured it was an indirect way of saying no thanks. I texted her back but didn't try to plan another meetup, and haven't been in touch with her for 2 months. Couple weeks ago I catch her viewing my social media page and I view her back 6 six days later. Yesterday she texts me how my sum,dr is going, I send a brief reply, and she sends a longer reply, and says "We should get together soon because I miss our comversations"(we talked a lot while we were at work on business trips). She responded really quickly after I delayed texting her back by 4 hours. Does this mean she might like me? Edited July 12, 2015 by Radpivo Additional info
ScotchBeef Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 It's a strange one. Your conclusions all make sense (such as assuming it was an indirect rejection). Only thing I can think is that she was already kinda interested in someone else, and that has either changed or the person is not available. Propably not the most heartening of analogies, but it makes the most sense in my head. So yeah, she probably is keen. Best of luck mate.
Author Radpivo Posted July 22, 2015 Author Posted July 22, 2015 After exchanging another text kidding about work, and getting a 2 paragraph detailed reply after a day or so, I suggested we "catch up" over drinks the following this coming Thursday - no reply yet. Figure she's not going to reply. I just don't understand, why she contacts me after a month and a half, suggests she wants to get together soon, and then not respond? I guess she was feeling lonely that weekend she texted me and doesn't yet have a boyfriend to comfort her so . . . . Not sure if Thursday drinks was too aggressive. . . though she could suggest an alternative, possibly less charged day/time? Anyway, I think it's best to just write her off as this delay/ non-reply probably shows she probably doesn't have have much interest - yes?
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