Gil27 Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 I was with this guy my very first boyfriend , we started dating when I was I was 20 I'm 22 now. We broke up when I was 21. He's the only guy I've ever been with. The relationship for the most part was quite intense & passionate. We were deeply in love. I called it off because I always had the feeling he was hiding something & I wasn't the only one. We broke up the month before my birthday , he had texted me wishing me a happy birthday in 15 mins before which I replied with "thank u". We didn't speaK for 8 months however he still keeps in contact with my family. He asked my sister how I was doing & a week after went up to my best friend & told her he was seeing someone. Prior to this I didn't contact him. I thought his behavior was messed up because he asked for me & told my bestfriend he was seeing someone the week after. So I figured he was trying to make me jealous & bait a reaction out of me so I contacted him asking him to please leave my family alone & move on truly if he says he has. I saw him around 2 times since I asked him to leave me alone . it was the first i had seen him in a year & he was seemingly friendly , I was standoffish. both times he was the one who iniated contact. he recently celebrated his birthday I didn't wish him a happy birthday as Im trying to heal. I joined ig recently. I notice the week I joined he started posting pics of him & girls. I know he knows I'm on IG as we have mutual friends who occasionally puts my pics up on their page & tag me. I'm trying my hardest not to hate him as its not my desire to hate anyone. I have been to his page & notice the ex who also was many reasons we argued he is following after he told me they weren't in contact, he was my best friend there was nothing I didn't tell him , he also recently started following a girl who i had problems with , who he claimed he strongly disliked. This confuses me. . . is he just hurt or being spiteful? I used to tell him back then when we were cool that I occasionally looked on his page. Im getting the feeling he's using my weaknesses against me & knows I'm seeing to bait a reaction out of me. I knew he loved me very much , he told me if we ever broke up he's gonna take it hard. I'm trying hard not to react & not to hate him.
d0nnivain Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 Block him from all social media. There are no other options. What he is doing is of no consequence to you. Even though it hurts you have to remember he doesn't matter any more. He's nothing to you. He can do whatever he wants but so can you. So stop looking behind you & look forward to determine what is next for you.
Author Gil27 Posted July 12, 2015 Author Posted July 12, 2015 Thank you I'll proceed to do that now. 1
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