beltran Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Its kinda long sorry.) Hi so I got contacted in late April by a mutual friend on Face Book that a woman had desires to friend and meet me. Girls from high school. I accepted exchanged telephone numbers we began talking. I set up a date she flaked the day before. I ignored her walked away. Ten days later she is back sending me private messages. We talk more. I begin to think this girl is all right. Set up another date she flakes again. So I walk again no contact. Mid May early June she is back to private messaging me. I'm more cautious but we start a telephone friendship. Sometime I had mentioned that I had concert tickets for the Rolling Stones in Detroit. Which happened three days ago July 8, 2015. So I wanted to see her before the concert at least once but it never materialized. She became really friendly the last couple of weeks. And even more after I gave her good advice how to get out a situation at work. Last week I say do you want to go to see the Rolling stones she says yes. This past Monday she invites me to a city even this weekend (today) I respond sounds good lets see what happens Wednesday the day of the concert. So we meet downtown Detroit in a parking garage as I had farther to drive. She jumps in my car and we go to Comerica park. The show was great and the Stones awesome for a bunch of 70 year olds. After the show I'm driving her back to her car. The streets are packed with people, cops barricaded streets, my ears ringing, I navigate back to the garage. So were talking about the show. I say to her thinking about her text Monday what are you doing Saturday (today)? She replies i have a date. Now I was a bit caught off guard and say really. Ok I guess I should date other women also. She went on to say that this date was planned months ago. A boaters party. I get her back to her car. No exchange hug kiss anything like that. I wasn't expecting it. She had taken plenty of pictures of the concert, and was posting them on her FB profile. And gave me permission to grab some. My camera phone is terrible I didn't take any photos. We say bye. Later that morning I get home 2am I can see the photos. I'm too tired and go to bed figuring I would get them when I get up. So I check after awakening and there all gone. Quickly I realize she has restricted me. Other friends tell me the pics are everywhere. I send her a text why have you restricted me? She denies it says check again later maybe I did something wrong. Eight hours later still restricted. Send another text. She again denies it. So I'm puzzled Ok whats going on here. Later that night she sends me a PM saying she had a really good time. But she thought when she mentioned she had a date that I got jealous. I answered no not true. At this point I asked again for pictures so I can share with others. So today I log on and I have now been totally blocked from her on FB. Can't see anything cant even find her on a search. I sent her a text today asking her "is this what your all about"? No answer. Left her a voice mail indicating my displeasure why are you doing this. No call back. So anyone have opinions here. Seems like I was used here for sure. Why did this train wreck keep coming back to me? I cant get any photos and within two days she is gone. Do you think this girl will unblock me and contact me in the future? Or just walk away again? Thank you for reading. Edited July 11, 2015 by beltran
smackie9 Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 It's not the fact the train wreck kept coming back, it's YOU that kept letting her back. You like have OCD? you keep pressing the button even tho you are getting the same results....nothing. I hope you figure it out.
Author beltran Posted July 11, 2015 Author Posted July 11, 2015 Yes your right smackie I should have washed my hands from it the first time.
katiegrl Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 "The show was great, and the Stones awesome for a bunch of 70 year olds." --------------- Is this really how 70 year olds behave? Bless your hearts. 1
LoveRefreshed Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 "The show was great, and the Stones awesome for a bunch of 70 year olds." --------------- Is this really how 70 year olds behave? Bless your hearts. Katie.. I think he meant the stones are 70 years old... not them. But dude.. I would have blown this woman off a long time ago. Sounds like she uses you for an ego boost when she's feeling low
katiegrl Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 Katie.. I think he meant the stones are 70 years old... not them. But dude.. I would have blown this woman off a long time ago. Sounds like she uses you for an ego boost when she's feeling low LOL.....yeah that makes a hell of ALOT more sense! Duh, I really do interpret things weirdly sometimes.......
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