Yummm Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Hello dear LS members Firstly I want to thank you all for your help throughout my journey for the last couple of months after my first breakup, you guys helped more than you think. For those who haven't followed my journey and are finding it hard to cope after a breakup, you are more than welcome to have a look here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/530753-much-appreciated Tomorrow I am heading off to SE Asia for a life changing holiday with my good friends. After a very painful last couple of months I am finally starting to see brightness in my future. Working on myself, learning and growing from my mistakes and my past RS, understanding what I'm about and want out of life, aswell as my next RS. Going on this holiday will get me out of the monotonous routine that i've been stuck in for the last year and I genuinely can't wait! When I return, I have a few casual dates set up with some lovely ladies, I will also be attending a young professionals networking event that I haven't been able to go to due to my breakup (my ex goes there), but I feel like I will be ready to get back into it in August. Work is picking up and I have my whole future ahead of me! I won't be posting here during my holiday, but I look forward to letting you guys know how I'm feeling over the next couple of months! If you're going through a breakup, it is hard, it is painful, but we will get through this, life is full of incredible experiences and we have to learn from both the good and bad and mature from them. Have a lovely summer all! Sending positive energy and hugs xox 4
Ariess10 Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Good for you !! It's nice to see that eventually we all will heal and be ok .. Have a safe trip and enjoy yourself to the fullest .. Best of luck !!
15Love Posted July 12, 2015 Posted July 12, 2015 So happy for you!! Have a wonderful time! This trip will do you a world of good. Best wishes, let us know how you are when you're back
Author Yummm Posted August 4, 2015 Author Posted August 4, 2015 I have just returned from my incredible trip... Hope you are all okay I will update when I have slept and not jetlagged Sending positive energy to all xox 1
Author Yummm Posted August 6, 2015 Author Posted August 6, 2015 Tomorrow marks 3 months post BU for me and I just got home from an amazing holiday. I barely thought about my ex, apart from the occasional 'ahh I wish she was here experiencing this memory with me' (as she was meant to come away with me) there wasn't much reminiscing. It's crazy how some time away changes your perspective on the whole thing! Coming back home into routine has given me a little bit of a downer, but overall I'm feeling alot more positive and looking forward to the future! My mind is not consumed by her, and when it is, it isn't so much sadness, more 'ah well, that was a fun part of my journey'. I've been chatting to a few lovely ladies and have some dates set up for next week. One girl who i've taken a liking to and chilling out with has also been great, it definitely takes my mind off my ex which is good! There are definitely battle scars, but they are fading....slowly Hope everybody is doing okay and know that it does get easier! xox 1
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