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How do I not close things off but not pursue?


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So there is this girl I like and who has told me she likes me however, due to timing right now there is no way this could work. I'm going to be seeing her every couple weeks or so over the next few months and potentially more once we are both back in school. I want to back off and do my own thing for a while but at the same time not close things off with her because it seems like down the road timing will be better. Obviously I won't be trying to get in touch with her or anything like that outside of when we see each other. So how do I do this when I'm around her? If I back off too far it will discourage her and nothing may happen, if I don't back off enough it just gets pushy.

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Nothing is really permanently closed off. You don't need to keep a connection with her till the timing is right. Let it completely go and in 6 months or in a year if you are still interested in her than contact her.

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You think I can actually just do nothing? Even when we see each other semi-often?

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