dmk9999 Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Ended up texting her at night "I said I was going to let you know when I was free but I know you need your space now. When you change your mind, get in touch". The next day she texted me around 4pm and said, "Hi, how's your dad doing?" ( My dad was in the hospital for his knee). I replied when I got off work at 9, "He's better, thanks for asking. How are you doing?" Two minutes later, "Glad he's better, out of the hospital? I'm doing ok". And 9 minutes later, I replied, "He's out but he was there longer than they thought he would be. I'd love to see you when your free." Then she NEVER replied... 1) Yeah, that was nice of her to ask but she could have asked anytime the whole week when she knew he might have knee surgery. Why would she ask the day after I told her to get in touch when she changed her mind. Because obviously, she hasn't changed her mind, she still needs space. 2) Why would she get in contact with me if she didn't want to see me. Just to know my dad is ok? I mean she has never met him or talked to him before. 3) Is she just testing me now? To see if I would text her again if she doesn't respond. I mean it still sounds like she's feeling depressed but still. From now on out, I won't text her again and if she does get in touch I will keep things short and won't bring up getting together first.
Qboro90 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Dude.... She was just being nice, she clearly does not want to see/hang out with you. She asked about your dad instead of being a complete bitch and not replying to your precious nights texts, by texting about your dad she's being nice but not inviting any romantic talk. You however come off as desperate to be perfectly honest. No contact from here on out. No guy has ever gotten a girl back by being needy and reaching out like you are. If she wants to see you and get back into things with you, trust me, she will reach out and text you. What did you expect when you texted her "I know you need your space but when you change your mind get in touch"?..... Think she was going to say "yes ok I'll be more into it next Friday and I'll call you then". Lol cmon man, never happening. Also you even said "when you change your mind". That's telling her you don't take her feelings or requests for space seriously and know she'll come back to you. "If you change your mind" is what you meant. Do not contact her, you are overthinking and obsessing way to much. Counting the minutes between the texting replies exchange, reading into it way too deep. This girl was simply being polite. She doesn't want to see you, sorry to be the blunt truth. I've been there, just leave her alone.
madjac74 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Yea you took her being courteous about your dad and quickly pounced to turn it about you and her. That is a big turn off. You could have milked the wounded fawn aspect a whole lot better but you blew it
Redhead14 Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 Yea you took her being courteous about your dad and quickly pounced to turn it about you and her. That is a big turn off. You could have milked the wounded fawn aspect a whole lot better but you blew it Yes, wrong time to do it.
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