LUSLOVEJE Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 (edited) I'm almost 17 and he's 27. We knew each other for 2-3 years now. I want to mess w/ him again and tell him my true feelings should I go for it? He seems shy about dating a girl young like me. Sorry for the strange english. English is not my first language. I am from a foreign country. Edited July 10, 2015 by LUSLOVEJE
No Limit Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Perhaps you should do something more productive at this stage of your life other than letting others take advantage of you.
Lansing Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I was going to post "10 years isn't a big age difference" but then I saw you are 17!!! In many countries, you two fooling around would be considered illegal. (and, the fact that you have known each other for 3 years already so sounds like he mighted started grooming you at an early age). Regardless of the above, I saw you date some guys your age and try that out for now. I hate to think what a 27 year old wants with a 17 year old!
CarrieT Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 He shouldn't get involved with you because it is technically statutory rape and could give him a label as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Leave him alone; date guys your own age for a few more years.
Author LUSLOVEJE Posted July 11, 2015 Author Posted July 11, 2015 He shouldn't get involved with you because it is technically statutory rape and could give him a label as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Leave him alone; date guys your own age for a few more years. I don't like guys my age. Too immature and silly. He has his own business and everything. I admire career ambition and strength in a man like that. Ever since I was 12 I loved older men. He treats me very well.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 You might like older men, but a man his age should not be with a teenager. You are not legally an adult. Yes, I realize I sound like your mother. But sorry, I find this very inappropriate and a 27-year-old man will realistically have little in common with a 16-year-old girl. No, you should not reveal your feelings. I don't think it's shyness that's keeping him away from you. He more than likely knows he's far too old for you and could be breaking the law, depending on where you live.
veggirl Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Can he not get women his own age? It is NOT normal for a nearly 30 year old man to be dating a HIGH SCHOOLER. 1
ChicagoSparty Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Perhaps you should do something more productive at this stage of your life other than letting others take advantage of you. Yeah....like her homework.
stillafool Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 Aren't there any guys 2-3 years older than you that you could date?
darkmoon Posted July 11, 2015 Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Seventeen is not child age but is young and very pretty. This man of yours must meet your family. Which i think has not happened as you know a male member of your family would ask him all the wrong questions or might even hit him, as at seventeen you have all the good things a woman ever has, and this guy sounds like he is using you for sex. I feel bad over this, uncomfortable. Edited July 11, 2015 by darkmoon
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