lookingfortheone Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I am a current second year medical student and prior to medical school i was dating a women for quite some time. I decided to break to off before we started school for various reasons. During the first year i was seeing another women, one i knew since i was 21 but hadn't really been in contact until recently. We dated for a little bit but then she cheated on me so i ended that. Im currently 27 years old and by the time i am done with medical school and residency i will be close to 35-38 years old. I don't know much about dating, the women i saw before med school started was the only lady i have seriously dated. ( There was the one who cheated on me but that relationship was only about 2-3 months). So recently my mind has become almost obsessed with the idea what i will be pretty much old when i am done w all of this. Im trying to come to terms with it. I know i can look around now and i have tried, gone speed dating several times, gone out w my classmate several times to bars and such but nothing so far. I have very little time and so whatever free time i have i try and go out and be social. so my question is how do i come to terms and be ok if i don't find anyone right now and get over that 'idea' that i might be single forever.... I am not really a player or something to go on and mack on the few classmates that are somewhat single and the whole bar scene is not doing anything for me. tinder is just a place for people to get attention, i have had a few likes and numbers but nothing beyond that. thx you all for your input and time.
Jacob_Duluoz Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Dude you're going to be a doctor. You won't be single forever so long as you actively keep expanding your social circle. There are better electronic avenues for dating than Tinder. Also, take advantage of being in school, there are women around other than your classmates presuming you're within a larger university.
Author lookingfortheone Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 the whole doctor thing doesn't really mean anything these days. I think people finally caught on that we don't have any time and that we have 300K in debt to pay that builds interest. I know that women want someone who has a stable secure future, we all do but i would also think they would want to be with me because of me, not necessary my job. Maybe the entire package or something... Just my thoughts... ill be over 40 before i have any real security in anything and i do want to have a family at some point. i am at a top 30 med school, its pretty large but i am don't really know where to look. We have little time, and don't really see anyone else except classmates.
d0nnivain Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Join a study session with a cute classmate. Flirt with a nurse when you go to the hospital. Talk to the drug reps when then come by. Just be leery of falling for a patient. Your life is filled with like minded people for you to date. Don't bother about OLD, Tinder & all that stuff. Just pop your head out of your books for a few minutes every day & talk to another person.
Author lookingfortheone Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 whats OLD? online dating? we don't see any nurses, or drug reps...nothing like that. We start doing hospital work during 3rd year. how do i flirt exactly..i mean i can try but i don't think its appropriate while i am being evaluated?
katiegrl Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 whats OLD? online dating? we don't see any nurses, or drug reps...nothing like that. We start doing hospital work during 3rd year. how do i flirt exactly..i mean i can try but i don't think its appropriate while i am being evaluated? You mean it's not like on Gray's Anatomy? Where all the male interns and residents flirt with/screw the female interns and residents? lol. :bunny: 1
Author lookingfortheone Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 You mean it's not like on Gray's Anatomy? Where all the male interns and residents flirt with/screw the female interns and residents? lol. :bunny: nothing like that all............
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