Appar92 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I've known this girl for a year, she is a very private person about her life. She just coming off of a long distance relationship, like month ago. Her ex still text her, but she said she ignore him. I know she's been through traumatic experience, but she doesn't know that I know. Because of it she puts up an emotional wall, I really like her, open up a little bit. I feel if honest about my anxiety, and maybe if I share something about myself she'll bring down her wall a little.
Author Appar92 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 I really need advice don't know what to do?
DrReplyInRhymes Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Your anxiety is apparent, but you know what, that's ok! Being honest is an admirable trait, I'd suggest staying that way! As for your friend putting up an emotional wall, it's her right to do such, You can try to bring her wall down, however, that'll take a special touch. If she doesn't want to share anything, that's her right too, You'll have to respect that and accept that point of view. Maybe if you just told her the truth, like you feel she has put up a wall, but as a good friend of hers, you're there for her even when she has a fall. 1
d0nnivain Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Just listen to her & be supportive but don't plant yourself in the friendzone. unlike what you did in this thread don't post / text every 10 minutes. Learn some patience
Author Appar92 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 I just post that many times to keep it towards the top Lol. I'm avoid calling her friend to avoid any confusion. Do think my honest would help situation move to towards a more comfortable situation?
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