Flozfzx Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Me and my ex broke up 10 months ago she started reaching out 2 months ago. Shes reaching out while shes in a relationship i told her she needs to stop reaching out while shes in a relationships and i wont br her friend if thats what shes looking for. She reaches out constantly and giving mix singles why does she do this just cause she miss me?
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 She's not reaching out. Your responding to her, is permitting her to reach out. She's your ex. She's with someone else. You need to implement No Contact and block her number and quit responding. By responding to her she doesn't break No Contact. You do. If you never respond, she can try 'reaching out' all she wants. If you don't respond, she will fail. Block her completely, ignore her and never reply, respond or react. Ever. 1
OldRover Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Me and my ex broke up 10 months ago she started reaching out 2 months ago. Shes reaching out while shes in a relationship i told her she needs to stop reaching out while shes in a relationships and i wont br her friend if thats what shes looking for. She reaches out constantly and giving mix singles why does she do this just cause she miss me? You may not know why without seeing her a bit and finding out what's on her mind... And you may or may not want to do that... depends.
pidgeon1010 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 My ex would reach out and sometimes would say "sorry for writing but" or "please don't feel obligated to respond but"..It was hard not to respond so we maintained a month of DAILY communication. Guess what? I quit responding and I am now a little over one month NC. He hasn't attempted to send any more messages.
ravfour4 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Yes, she misses you, but not necessarily in the romantic way. You don't text your ex continually when you're content in an amazing new relationship and you especially don't do it when they tell you to stop. She has some feelings for you, but it may just be because the new guy isn't all that great at the moment, it's impossible to know for sure. Perhaps ask her why she keeps contacting you when she has a new bf.
No Limit Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 She's attention whoring because cake-eating is more fun than a normal relationship. Block her.
Author Flozfzx Posted July 13, 2015 Author Posted July 13, 2015 Yes, she misses you, but not necessarily in the romantic way. You don't text your ex continually when you're content in an amazing new relationship and you especially don't do it when they tell you to stop. She has some feelings for you, but it may just be because the new guy isn't all that great at the moment, it's impossible to know for sure. Perhaps ask her why she keeps contacting you when she has a new bf. She constantly tells me how unhappy she is and that that she wants to leave this man. I told her to leave him then contact me but im not being a side plate or the other man. We did cheated on him but i stopped it then she said i sabotage things.
No Limit Posted July 13, 2015 Posted July 13, 2015 She constantly tells me how unhappy she is and that that she wants to leave this man. I told her to leave him then contact me but im not being a side plate or the other man. We did cheated on him but i stopped it then she said i sabotage things. Well if you had sex withher while she was in a relationship with the guy she cheated on you with, you got your revenge - and she got her ego-stroke. Now take the high road - or what's left of it - and block her. She's telling you exactly what she told her current guy, how unhappy she is and so on so you keep giving her the extra-attention an experienced cheater like her lives for.
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