Ex girlfriend got me f&@ked up

[Koans]

It's already been a year and a half later. 3 yr long distance relationship.

 

Tell me if this is ****ed up. I took her to L&L (a food joint) so many times on Maryland (a street).. So supposedly she was in Vegas last week with her new b/f and sent me a video of that same L&L out the blue and captioned, "you still come here?", while showing his face.

 

This is thru snapchat. I don't block. I believe it means you're letting them perceive you as being affected. But seriously wtf.

[TaraMaiden2]

This is why you block. Not to give people an impression about how you feel - who cares what they 'perceive'...?!

 

You block to stop seeing crap like this, which compels you to post a thread asking WTF....

 

If you were to block, you wouldn't feel f**ked up.

 

SHE didn't "got me f&@ked up".

 

YOU did.

[Koans]

Man shut your biiitchazz up. Always tryna make me feel like I'm at fault. I don't block no biiitch, biiiitch. Life is about perception. F%ck your feelings. Man just stfu. You aint helping just dr. Philin.

[TaraMaiden2]

Hit a nerve.....?

 

Listen.

 

The only thing you have any control over, is yourself, your actions and your re-actions.

 

If what she does gets to you, then implement damage limitation methods and quit letting it get to you.

 

How complicated do you want to make your life, exactly?

[TaraMaiden2]

You received similar responses to mine, here and here.

 

So you really should listen when people tell you that ultimately, the only one who can honestly govern your life, mind, views and attitude - is you.

[Starks]

I don't block no biiitch, biiiitch.

 

 

lmao @ this tough guy act

 

 

dude, you are on a forum bitching about your ex who is out having a blast with her new boyfriend

[Koans]

Are you stupid. This forum is technically the site where you bitch about your life in regards to an ex. Could you not be anymore clueless.

[Ariess10]

Is this how you acted when you were with her?

[mightycpa]

Koans,

 

I gots to luv a guy who puts his a$$ up in the air for his ex, and says

 

THANK YOU MA'AM, MAY I HAVE ANOTHER!

 

 

God Bless You, man!! You tell her to keep those pictures of her new guys comin' in!

 

After all, life is about perception!

[d0nnivain]

What do you want to hear? That you are a better person because of your masochistic tendencies to continually expose yourself to people because you think blocking them shows some kind of weakness? It doesn't. It makes you look like a bigger tool because you keep running back for more pain.

 

Block your EXs off social media because then it won't matter if she bought the chain where you used to take her.

 

What she does isn't your concern. When you realize that & cleanse her from your life, you will be a happier person. But my all means, please continue to prove how much stronger you are because you sit there & take it. That philosophy & cursing at us is serving you so very well.

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Man shut your biiitchazz up. Always tryna make me feel like I'm at fault. I don't block no biiitch, biiiitch. Life is about perception. F%ck your feelings. Man just stfu. You aint helping just dr. Philin.

 

In before this thread gets moved or locked with stuff like this...

 

Dude, you've got a lot of maturing to do. I've seen all of your threads since you've been here and they have all had the same advice, and you continue not to listen and then take it a step father and get angry as those trying to help. Until you learn to take some responsibility and end all forms of contact, then you're going to continue to keep running into the same stuff.

 

If you use this site as somewhere to b**** about your life, might I suggest a journal?