Probably in love for the first time...

[Love_Stinks]

Hi all. I'm a 23 year old male from England and I've got a problem. Except I don't know if it is a problem or a blessing. This post is rather long so I appreciate those who take the time to read it in its entirety and especially would be grateful for any responses.

 

 

I moved back home to England last summer after living and working in Spain for close to five years. On my return, I reacquainted with my old friends and bumped into a girl I knew from school on a night out. She and I hadn't exactly been friends in school but we'd been friendly with each other. I had a crush on her but I also had crushes on probably half the girls in my class! I never acted on barely any crushes as a kid as I was extremely shy. Anyway, we both immediately recognised each other even after having not seen one another for like six or seven years (though, admittedly, we do have each other on Facebook!) So we said hello and then went our separate ways. I'd grown used to seeing old faces out and about since moving back but I couldn't get this one girl out of my head and I didn't know why.

 

 

To cut a long story short, we're almost a year later now and my feelings have grown stronger. We chat online and via text almost every day and often bump into each other in pubs and clubs where we've gotten closer each time in terms of spending time interacting with each other. To her, I'm sure I'm just an old classmate whom she's now developed a friendship with but she doesn't know that I'm hiding feelings from her. Serious feelings.

 

 

I think about this girl nearly all of the time. When I wake up and when I go to sleep. She's even in my dreams sometimes. Romantic comedies are almost seen through new eyes and love songs sound different all of a sudden. Before, if I'm thinking about a woman, I'm thinking of sexy stuff but it's different with this girl. I daydream about just being with her. Not in a sexual sense, but just being around her and holding her. I have never thought about a girl like this and especially not for this long. I have no clue why I feel this strongly. It's hit me like a ton of bricks and I'm struggling to deal with it. And, believe me, I'd have laughed out loud if you'd told me I'd ever write a paragraph like this one a year ago.

 

 

She's beautiful, but her beauty is obvious to anybody with sight. What attracts me even more is her sense of humour, her intelligence and her kindness. She is the most thoughtful person I've ever met.

 

 

I know what many of you will be thinking by now...dude, you obviously like her and she's single so go for it! But, honestly, I'm scared. Part of me doesn't want to waste time on a friendship with an almost perfect girl who isn't going to stay single forever but the other part of me doesn't want to lose what we currently have. We're not best friends by any means but I like talking to her and I'm always happy whenever I see her and I don't want that to change if she turns me down. Sometimes I feel down and depressed that I have such strong feelings for someone I'm not with but other times I just feel glad that I know and care for someone so much.

 

 

However, the other day one of my best friends told me I'm starting to become obsessed and that I really should just tell her how I feel. Frankly, my life is starting to become more and more effected. I'm losing sleep which is effecting my work. I'm showing no interest in any other women. I'm probably driving my two closest friends crazy by talking about her almost all of the time! After suspecting it for a while, I've come to the conclusion that I'm probably in love and I need to just tell her and, hopefully, I can 'get over it' if she turns me down.

 

 

I'm not expecting a positive response, which is a big reason I haven't said anything up to now. Being honest, she's way out of my league. There's thousands of better looking guys out there than me and thousands who have more money than me but I don't think even one guy could care for her as much as I do. I think I can make her happy and I know she can make me happy. We confide in each other about past relationships and she often tells me that men suck which leaves me wanting so much to reply, "not me! I'm right here, I'll treat you like you deserve!"

 

 

I'm likely to see her this weekend as I do almost every other week and I've told myself that I'll definitely say something when I see her.

 

 

So, three questions. How do I tell her? I never see her when we're not both with friends so getting her alone will be difficult. I really don't want to say something like this online or via text though. What do I say? I don't think flat out saying I'm in love with her is a good idea but I also don't want to be shuffling my feet and saying, 'errr, well, I kinda like you'. I want to show her I'm serious. And what do I do if these feelings don't go away if she turns me down? I'm not sure at this stage if even being flat out rejected will help.

 

 

Thanks in advance for any replies.

[yxalitis]

Don't tell her you're madly in love with her!

Approach it from the "hey, we see each other so often we should just date each other?"

Look her in the eyes and gauge her reaction...look for a darting away of the look, a hesitance, an uncertainty...in which case...she's your friend...only..

 

If she's keeps the eye contact, smiles, and either subtly or overtly agrees...you're in

 

But step softly...

[umirano]

Stop talking negatively to your self. You don't know that she's perfect. She's probably great and that's awesome but hardly anyone is truly perfect. You like her a lot, act on it, take a small risk and maybe win a great girl!

 

I know what you're experiencing and I know it's not easy to communicate effectively and a appropriately when the feelings are so strong. But you need to move forward. Ask her out on dates. Don't talk about how you feel about her. Show her how you feel about her by planning exciting dates, by keeping your word, through the conversations you have with her. Listen and take a serious interest in her and her life.

 

Your writing is clear and accurate. Some girls are quite attracted to well spoken guys. You certainly have things going for you. Girls are less visual than men, don't worry about your looks.

 

Good luck!

[TaraMaiden2]

Send her a message:

 

"I have grown to really really like you, and would love to date you. I honestly think you're amazing and I think it would be great to try. Nothing ventured nothing gained, eh?

 

If you agree, wear something pink.

If you'd rather not date me, wear something pale blue.

 

That way, I'll know whether to be glad I asked, or realise I've been a dick.

Nothing needs saying."

[gaius]

Nooooo, the only thing you need to be saying to this girl is "come grab dinner with me on Saturday?" or some variation of asking her out. Girls do not want to hear talk about any kind of feelings before you've even pursued them, guaranteed way to turn her off and ruin your chances.

 

If you get her to fall in love with you via dating, then she'll find it endearing, but shush until then. Unless what you really want is to get rid of her because you can't handle intimacy.

[Love_Stinks]

Hi all, thanks for your replies.

 

 

Unfortunately, I've still not asked this girl out or told her my feelings.

 

 

I'd seen her two weekends in a row as I usually do but still couldn't find the "right moment" to say something as both encounters were in clubs.

 

 

This weekend has been a bit different though and it's pretty much confirmed that I'm in love and even gave me a little hope that I may have a chance. I once again saw her out but this time I spent most of the night with her and we ended up making our way home together. She lives not that far from me so we jumped on a bus as we didn't have enough money between us for a cab! Once on the bus, she fell asleep leaning on my shoulder and we spent the 15 minute journey like that. It was so comfortable and you can imagine how I was feeling. When we got to our stop, I woke her up and she was obviously disappointed to have to move and even told me "that was really comfortable." I walked her back to hers with my arm wrapped around her as she'd told me a couple of times that she was really cold. On my way back to my place, I was kicking myself slightly that I didn't make some kind of move but it was probably best I didn't as she was very drunk and I doubt she was meaning to send me any signals.

 

 

So after thinking about her all day, she texts me out of the blue asking me if I want to go to McDonalds with her. Not exactly where I'd imagined our first meal together would be but I accepted nonetheless as it would finally be a chance to be with her when we're both sober! She picks me up in her car and we go to a drive through and eat in the car park and have a talk, mostly about the previous night. The next part was like a cheesy movie. We're discussing exes and possible future partners and she asked me about this girl who I'd told her I'd been texting. I told her I didn't feel like I really liked this girl that much and she replied "Sometimes it takes a while for you to realise how much you like someone". As soon as she'd said that, Ed Sheeran - 'Thinking Out Loud' came on the radio. My heart was racing as we were listening to the lyrics, "people fall in love in mysterious ways", "I fall in love with you every single day and I just wanna tell you I am", "Maybe we found love right where we are". It was as though something was telling me to make a move right there and then and I probably won't ever get a more perfect opportunity but fear of rejection overtook me once again. If it was a movie, that was definitely the romantic scene where the two people realise they like each other and kiss but this was reality unfortunately! It would have made for a very awkward ride home if my instincts were wrong and I'd made some kind of move and she hadn't responded as I hoped.

 

 

So, yeah, I'm definitely in love with this girl. I've mixed feelings right now though. Part of me is happy that we're growing closer but I realise I have to do something to show her I like her before I'm firmly put in the friend zone. If she was indeed intentionally trying to show me she likes me this weekend, she might think my lack of response is because I don't like her back and she may give up. Though I have always been relatively shy, I'm not normally THIS afraid of being knocked back by a girl but I've never felt this strongly either. It would really help my confidence if I thought she liked me and I'd be much more likely to make my move but there's this voice in my head telling me I'm being delusional.

 

 

What do you guys think? Was she giving signals that she likes me or am I just grasping at straws and feeling things that aren't there?

 

 

Responses would be very appreciated and please be honest. If you think I'm a pathetic loser, don't hesitate to tell me!

[wb1988]

Don't tell her you're madly in love with her!

Approach it from the "hey, we see each other so often we should just date each other?"

Look her in the eyes and gauge her reaction...look for a darting away of the look, a hesitance, an uncertainty...in which case...she's your friend...only..

 

If she's keeps the eye contact, smiles, and either subtly or overtly agrees...you're in

 

But step softly...

 

Terrible advice. Her not looking away could also mean that she sees him as just a friend, and the the opposite reaction could also mean that he's in.

[highseas]

OP, I can't read minds either, and there is no good way to find out definitively if you are just a friend or a potential BF to her without taking steps further.

 

It sounds like you have a good friendly foundation already. She even asked you to go grab something to eat with her one-on-one (I assume that it was the first time being alone with her). That by itself still doesn't determine if you're just a friend or if she is interested. It depends on whether she is normally friendly with guy friends like that, or not. If she is normally reserved with males, then this is significant behavior for her. If she interacts easily with guys, then it may or may not mean something.

 

I agree with some of the previous posts that you should show her you have romantic intentions through deeds. Asking her out on a date is one such move. It's been over a year of chatting and texting. Either you're in or you're already in the friendzone.

 

MAYBE when you talk with her or text her next time you talk with her about a new or unexplored restaurant (try to see what her tastes are) and then ask her to join you for dinner there.

 

I understand that you don't want to ruin the friendship you both already have if she rejects you. But I think you also said you're not sure about being friends with her and she won't stay single forever (in fact, probably not for long, if she's a catch; there are probably other guys harboring feelings for her). It's nice to stay friends if you get shot down, in a way, but you may not be able to handle seeing her with another man in friendly gatherings.

 

Would you prefer to pursue her and get shot down, or to stay safe and watch from a distance while another man comes along and makes her his GF? (both bad options, I know). If you stay safe, someone else taking her is for sure, sooner or later. If you pursue her, you either get shot down, or go to heaven.

 

Ask her out to dinner. Keep us posted.

[beyond]

Hi all, thanks for your replies.

 

 

Unfortunately, I've still not asked this girl out or told her my feelings.

 

 

I'd seen her two weekends in a row as I usually do but still couldn't find the "right moment" to say something as both encounters were in clubs.

 

 

This weekend has been a bit different though and it's pretty much confirmed that I'm in love and even gave me a little hope that I may have a chance. I once again saw her out but this time I spent most of the night with her and we ended up making our way home together. She lives not that far from me so we jumped on a bus as we didn't have enough money between us for a cab! Once on the bus, she fell asleep leaning on my shoulder and we spent the 15 minute journey like that. It was so comfortable and you can imagine how I was feeling. When we got to our stop, I woke her up and she was obviously disappointed to have to move and even told me "that was really comfortable." I walked her back to hers with my arm wrapped around her as she'd told me a couple of times that she was really cold. On my way back to my place, I was kicking myself slightly that I didn't make some kind of move but it was probably best I didn't as she was very drunk and I doubt she was meaning to send me any signals.

 

 

So after thinking about her all day, she texts me out of the blue asking me if I want to go to McDonalds with her. Not exactly where I'd imagined our first meal together would be but I accepted nonetheless as it would finally be a chance to be with her when we're both sober! She picks me up in her car and we go to a drive through and eat in the car park and have a talk, mostly about the previous night. The next part was like a cheesy movie. We're discussing exes and possible future partners and she asked me about this girl who I'd told her I'd been texting. I told her I didn't feel like I really liked this girl that much and she replied "Sometimes it takes a while for you to realise how much you like someone". As soon as she'd said that, Ed Sheeran - 'Thinking Out Loud' came on the radio. My heart was racing as we were listening to the lyrics, "people fall in love in mysterious ways", "I fall in love with you every single day and I just wanna tell you I am", "Maybe we found love right where we are". It was as though something was telling me to make a move right there and then and I probably won't ever get a more perfect opportunity but fear of rejection overtook me once again. If it was a movie, that was definitely the romantic scene where the two people realise they like each other and kiss but this was reality unfortunately! It would have made for a very awkward ride home if my instincts were wrong and I'd made some kind of move and she hadn't responded as I hoped.

 

 

So, yeah, I'm definitely in love with this girl. I've mixed feelings right now though. Part of me is happy that we're growing closer but I realise I have to do something to show her I like her before I'm firmly put in the friend zone. If she was indeed intentionally trying to show me she likes me this weekend, she might think my lack of response is because I don't like her back and she may give up. Though I have always been relatively shy, I'm not normally THIS afraid of being knocked back by a girl but I've never felt this strongly either. It would really help my confidence if I thought she liked me and I'd be much more likely to make my move but there's this voice in my head telling me I'm being delusional.

 

 

What do you guys think? Was she giving signals that she likes me or am I just grasping at straws and feeling things that aren't there?

 

 

Responses would be very appreciated and please be honest. If you think I'm a pathetic loser, don't hesitate to tell me!

 

As a woman, I think she likes you - asking you to meet, saying what she did in the car, trying to suss out if you were seeing anyone else. Yes, you should have made a move, you even had Ed Sheeran playing, what more could you ask for:cool:

However, you didn't make a move and she may be thinking you are just not interested - so ACT NOW!

Call her and ask her out somewhere, just you and her. When you are out (a walk is good for this) tell her you have been thinking of her more and more lately and think she is pretty amazing. A guy once asked me out in this way and said later it was because he found it less scary walking and saying it rather than the pressure of staring at me across a table etc! I answered in a positive way, we carried on walking, he took my hand, turned and kissed me and that was it !

 

You do need to act quickly though, before she ends up telling you how another guy has asked her out. I would tell her how great you think she is but wouldn't say you were in love with her as a bit full on.

Good luck!

Edited July 27, 2015 by beyond

[misspond]

As a woman, I think she likes you - asking you to meet, saying what she did in the car, trying to suss out if you were seeing anyone else. Yes, you should have made a move, you even had Ed Sheeran playing, what more could you ask for:cool:

However, you didn't make a move and she may be thinking you are just not interested - so ACT NOW!

Call her and ask her out somewhere, just you and her. When you are out (a walk is good for this) tell her you have been thinking of her more and more lately and think she is pretty amazing. A guy once asked me out in this way and said later it was because he found it less scary walking and saying it rather than the pressure of staring at me across a table etc! I answered in a positive way, we carried on walking, he took my hand, turned and kissed me and that was it !

 

You do need to act quickly though, before she ends up telling you how another guy has asked her out. I would tell her how great you think she is but wouldn't say you were in love with her as a bit full on.

Good luck!

 

^^^ Totally this! Just ask her out, quickly! Good luck

[Love_Stinks]

Thanks for the responses again, guys and girls. You all make very good points and really help .

 

 

highseas, your post in particular really hit home. You're totally right. As bad and, frankly, as heart breaking as it would be to get rejected by her, I'm sure I'd feel even worse if I don't say anything before she ends up with another guy. Especially as I'd never truly know if anything would have happened or not. Your post has really encouraged me to do something.

 

 

I probably won't ever get a better opportunity to say how I feel or ask her out than I did the other day in the car. What worked against me was the fact she literally asked me and was at my door ten minutes later so I had barely enough time to prepare myself physically, let alone mentally! I've been kicking myself that I didn't have the guts but that chance has been and gone now and there's no use dwelling on it. I guess I just have to wait for (or perhaps create) another opportunity. I did actually send her a text the morning after saying something along the lines of "that was fun last night, we should do stuff like that more often" and her reply was "I will definitely keep that in mind". Before last weekend, seeing her other than out with friends was not even plausible but now it doesn't seem so scary to casually give her a text and ask if she wants to do something, just the two of us.

 

 

So I've given myself a one week deadline from today to tell her how I feel. One way or another, it's going to happen. I'm not going to let another opportunity pass me by. I'm tired of waiting. No more excuses. It's time to man up!

 

 

I won't tell her I'm in love with her or anything full on like that, I'll keep it short and sweet. I'll probably say something along the lines of, "I think you're a great girl and I really enjoy spending time with you so I was just wondering if you wanted to get together this weekend."

 

 

Thanks again for the encouragement, everyone.

 

 

I'll be back when I've made a move and will fill you in on how I did it and what happened. Wish me luck!

[Love_Stinks]

I'm not sure if anybody is still interested in this but it feels kinda good to type out my thoughts anyway. Any opinions would be appreciated though!

 

 

So another weekend has been and gone and I've seen this girl on three separate occasions. And guess what? I still haven't said what I want to say! I guess I can make all the excuses in the world but, at the end of the day, I'm just a chicken ****.

 

 

I'm also now totally convinced that she DOES NOT have any romantic feelings towards me and sees me as nothing more than a friend. My telling her how I feel about her is now going to be solely to take the first step in "getting over her" - which sounds ridiculous when we haven't even dated.

 

 

So I saw her on Friday night and two things happened that made me feel incredibly jealous. It's ironic that I should see her with other guys just a couple of days after talking about it on here and, believe me, it was extremely hard to deal with. First of all, I was outside the club smoking a cigarette with my friends when I noticed this girl getting physical with a guy. I pretended like I didn't care or even notice but I obviously did and at first felt jealous. But that jealousy soon turned to anger when I realised that this guy was kissing her neck and she clearly didn't want it. That's not wishful thinking on my part, her face told the story. We even locked eyes at one point and her face was saying "help!" so that's when I decided I should intervene. I should stress, I wasn't only going to do this because I like this girl, I would have done the same for any female friend who I felt needed and wanted saving from an uncomfortable situation. I'm not the type to start fights so I wasn't going to go over and headbutt the guy, I probably would have just interrupted with conversation and eventually get her away from him. However, my friend (who knows I like this girl) noticed how upset I was getting so stopped me when I went to move towards them. He said he didn't think it was a good idea, that it would probably result in a fight and he's probably right. He ended up leaving her alone soon after as I guess she told him to and when I went over she confirmed she didn't want that and I apologised for not intervening and took her hand and led her inside until we saw her friends. I didn't see her again until closing time and was hoping we'd end up going home together again but this time it was totally different. As I was saying goodbye to my friends, I noticed her coming out of the club holding the hand of some guy. This time, she clearly DID want his attention. Instead of coming home with me, she headed off in the opposite direction with this dude's arm around her and I was left to go home alone feeling envious and as sad as I've felt in a long time. Truth be told, I was devastated.

 

 

The next morning, I wake up to a text from her and we're just talking about the previous night and it turns out she didn't go home with this guy after all. I'm happy about this and it gives me enough confidence to ask if she wants to meet up and have breakfast together. She accepts and we meet in one of her favourite restaurants about an hour later. This time, I didn't pick up any possible signals that she was interested. I paid and we had a good talk but the main things I wanted to say were once again not said. I guess the people being around made it difficult but I'm probably looking for excuses. We took a cab home (neither of us could drive as we'd been drinking a few hours earlier) and I wasn't going to say anything in front of the driver! So I'd missed another opportunity of us being 'alone' and not getting things off my chest. I saw her once again on Saturday night and actually got talking to a girl for a while before she asked for my number. This rarely happens to me. The girl was perfectly nice and good looking but I lied to her and said I had a girlfriend. I would never have done this a year ago. I told my best friend and he really let me have it! I realise how bad this is. The girl I like most likely has no interest in me on a romantic level and is probably thinking of/seeing other guys and I can't even show any interest whatsoever in any other girl. Even hot ones who obviously are interested in me!

 

 

So my conclusion is that it's almost certain I will be shot down but that I now need to confess my true feelings to this girl for myself. I'm not just being negative about myself when I say she's out of my league. She truly is. I'm hoping telling her and having her confirm my instinct that she just isn't interested will help me start to get over it. I enjoy being a friend to her and imagining us together but I don't enjoy the depression I often feel about not having her. It's not worth it. I'm guessing I'll feel depressed once I'm rejected but hopefully I can distance myself from her and heal. Maybe we can go back to being friends once I've moved on but I don't think I can do it right now. I also stand to lose a big part of my social life as the place where I always drink with my buddies on a weekend is where she also goes. She knows my friends and I know hers so I'll have to stop going there as I don't think I could face seeing her after being turned down. Any tips for getting over these things would be appreciated as I've never truly been in love before and don't know how I will handle the oncoming feelings after the rejection.

 

 

So I've given myself three final options before my deadline of this coming Wednesday.

 

 

1) Text her tomorrow asking if she's available one evening this week and would like dinner. If she says she can't...

 

 

2) Ask her to meet me one random evening for a talk. She'll probably get an idea of what it's going to be about as this wouldn't be normal. Or as a last resort...

 

 

3) Simply show up at her door and let my feelings out!

 

 

I stick by what I said in my previous post, I'm determined to tell her my feelings by Wednesday!

[Qboro90]

Do it already for goodness sake!!! You're literally sinking deeper and deeper into the friend zone with each passing minute. This girl has given you countless opportunities to make a move and you've balked at every single one. You even recognize the chances you having while they're happening yet are to scared to act.

 

If you want to be the shy guy who lost out on the girl over and over again then by all means just keep doing what you're doing. Life's about taking risks.

 

Do not come right out and tell her that you like her and want to date her. Ask her if she'd like to grab dinner with you. Dinner is more intimate than breakfast and if she accepts then you already know she can see herself in a romantic setting with you. If she declines dinner than sorry to tell you but you're locked in the friend zone. The most important thing is that if she says yes to dinner, you absolutely 10000% have to kiss her by the end of the night/date. A girl can only put up with so much shyness. You're pushing that limit and passed it long ago. Dinner... Then before you take her home, go for a walk and pull her in and say "sorry but I've been wanting to kiss you all night and don't think I can wait till I drop you off" .... Or just pull her in and kiss her without saying anything.

 

Whatever you do, don't try to verbalized your feelings for her too much. Show her. Hold her hand, get close to her. If she lets you do any of these things she's literally telling you that it's ok to kiss her. Don't be scared, DO ITTTT!!!

[Love_Stinks]

Okay, so I finally found the courage and did it! The response was what I expected but I have mixed feelings now.

 

 

I ended up doing it on Friday night (I know, two days after I had planned to but I couldn't see her before Friday!) It wasn't the ideal scenario by any means and I didn't say everything I wanted to but it wasn't as hard as I'd thought. It actually happened after I'd had a few drinks and we were out with our friends and I know I said before that I didn't want to do it like that but I'm not sure I could have ever done it without both the extra courage the drinking gave me and my best friend encouraging/virtually forcing me!

 

 

So we're all in the same club and my best friend asks if I'm actually making any real progress with this girl. He's one of only two people in my life who knows how much I like her. I tell him that I'm planning on telling her how I feel soon, "when the time is right". He rolls his eyes and basically says I'll never do it and I say that crap all the time. We go back and forth for a while and eventually he says if I don't tell her the next time I see her (which obviously would be soon since we were in the same place), he will. Her friend, who I've also become friends with, overhears him saying this and comes over to ask "tell who how you feel?" I tried brushing it off but she guessed we were talking about her friend. Apparently, it's 'really obvious' I've liked her for a while. So now I've not only got my friend but her friend pushing me too. I had little choice but to do it right there and then otherwise she was going to find out through somebody else and that was the last thing I wanted. Soon after, my friend and her friend actually worked it so the four of us were in the smoking area together and they made an excuse and left us alone and that's when I did it.

 

 

I was nervous as hell but I managed to look in her eyes and say the words "I just wanted to let you know that I've got feelings for you." She responded with what I expected. Basically was gentle about it and used the BS "you're a really nice guy and I really like you but just not in that way." I told her that it was fine and I care about her and made sure to smile! She kissed me on the cheek and we went our separate ways and it was over just like that!

 

 

Firstly I felt a little embarrassed and disappointed, even though I honestly felt a negative response was more likely. But I actually started to feel more relieved than anything else after a while. One of my main concerns in doing this was how bad a rejection would feel but it wasn't all that bad. I felt like a big weight had been lifted off my shoulders and I could take a deep breath and begin to move past this. The wondering and worrying was gone.

 

 

As for our relationship now, I'm not sure how its going to turn out. I woke up to a few texts from her. Nothing about the night before, just usual chit chat. We were having our normal texting conversation when I asked if she wanted to meet for breakfast. This wasn't unusual because we'd been out to eat a few times in recent weeks but this time she said she couldn't. She said she was too hungover to move! A pretty reasonable excuse if she gets them as bad as I sometimes do but I obviously thought she just didn't want to be around me. Saw her again on Saturday night and things were fine. Completely normal. Same as any other night and we acted like our conversation never happened, which was a big relief to me. However, I then didn't hear from her all day on Sunday. Even after I'd sent her a text and she'd read it. She never ignored my texts before so now I'm not sure if she still wants to be friends or not. I'm not going to text her again until I hear from her. I'd still like to be friends but if she feels that its best to stop texting every day and no longer get together, I guess I'll have to deal with that as a consequence of my actions!

 

 

At least I know for sure now that the relationship thing is a no goer and hopefully I can move on and eventually find someone who is just as good as this girl but likes me too! Sorry I couldn't bring you better news guys and thanks for the moral support on here!