septemberbay Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 So background is we were fwb for four months, I broke it off because I didn't think it would lead anywhere and I cared about him, he got his **** together (no more drunken hook ups), and asked me on a date. He took me to a really nice dinner at a restaurant which was also the place where his parents went on their first date so it was really romantic. The date went really well we connected and loved talking to eachother so we went back to his place to watch a movie but only made out, nothing else because were trying to take things slow. We also hung out fourth of july at his lakehouse and he called me his girl and that he likes me a lot (he was really drunk though). Second date was more of a hang out. I came over to his place and he immediately started talking about how he had an awful day involving his controlling parents so I listened to him. It just kinda put me in an off mood and I started like teasing him and he teased me but he took it as rudeness so I apologized and said I'm really sorry I'm in a weird mood today. We hooked up so just handjob and fingering and he told me I was out of shape because I had to stop early because I was breathing so hard I just laughed and said ya I need to go to the gym but it put me in even more of a mood. He would do things like stare deep into my eyes while he was above me and I was laying down and he would like pick me up and kiss me I just don't know why I was being so moody. We watched a movie and cuddled and talked and he was like stroking my hair and rubbing my back but I was quieter than usual. He walked me to my car and opened the door for me and gave me a kiss and hug goodnight. I'm just worried because my bad mood kind of made me seem uninterested I think which I'm definently not. I'm hoping that one off night wont affect his view of me because we've had so many great ones. He's not much of a texter unless making plans so I haven't heard from him in a couple days. I sent him a snapchat today of my dog and he opened but didnt respond but I dont know if that even means anything because I know he works and stuff. Should I just wait a while until he contacts me again or what? I'm nervous and can't stop thinking about it and please tell me if I'm overthinking things because I probably am. Plus wouldn't he tell me if he didn't wanna date anymore because I've asked him multiple times to just be blunt with me about things? Thanks in advance for the responses!!
Gary S Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 You've known this guy for 4 months, just communicate - tell him you had an off day. I have to tell you though... it seems like the relationship started in the middle and you are now trying to go back to the beginning, it's a little weird.
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