Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I was just commenting in another thread how a dude I recently was into seems to have a lot in common with me and/or is sort of a "match" for me. Could it be that this is a simple thing of "likewise" people recognizing someone similar to them and being drawn towards each other (think of INXS song "One of my kind')? Or could it be both of us being intuitive in nature, learning about each other and mirroring? I mean, when I find out freaky stuff like when we bought similar stuff years ago around the same time, I just find that a bit weird...Could he have been following me for a while? Did we go out on a date years ago and I can't remember? Did I meet him somewhere, years ago? I don't know...
gaius Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I think it's more likely the people with similar experiences get drawn together thing. Pretty much every time I've had a strange urge to talk to someone we ended up sharing some life experience in common. It's also not so uncommon to have some weird coincidence pop up. Turns out Timshel and I both spent some time in the same building in Boston around the same time 20 years ago. Totally possible we passed each other in the lobby without realizing it, only to really meet and get together today. 4
Timshel Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I'm not gonna say it G! This reminds me of the story of the two kids in a random photo at SeaWorld or somewhere and they end up meeting and marrying 25 yrs. later. Sweet. I think sometimes you meet someone and it's a little like deja vu or kismet. Whether you were actually in their presence or not is really not important, you just feel like you were. You'd remember if you went on a date, right? Why would he stalk you? 3
Got it Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I was just commenting in another thread how a dude I recently was into seems to have a lot in common with me and/or is sort of a "match" for me. Could it be that this is a simple thing of "likewise" people recognizing someone similar to them and being drawn towards each other (think of INXS song "One of my kind')? Or could it be both of us being intuitive in nature, learning about each other and mirroring? I mean, when I find out freaky stuff like when we bought similar stuff years ago around the same time, I just find that a bit weird...Could he have been following me for a while? Did we go out on a date years ago and I can't remember? Did I meet him somewhere, years ago? I don't know... Why jump to the paranoid/negative? Why not take it as a nice positive, you guys have some things in common? The mental gymnastics you doing is exhausting.
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 Why jump to the paranoid/negative? Why not take it as a nice positive, you guys have some things in common? The mental gymnastics you doing is exhausting. Oh no, I didn't mean to be negative in this thread. I started it cuz I'm like "weird" when little things pop up you know...But "weird" in a good way:laugh:
Male Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Theres many random events and occurrences that happen all the time. But a lot of people tend to like to piece them together and find meaning, when ultimately theres typical is not. It feels even better when its a romantic situation, which fuels the feelings even more, as in years of choices brought two people together so they must be "destined" for each other. Destiny, déjà vu, and soulmates are fun to think about, but none of it actually exists.
Brigit_1 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Oh no, I didn't mean to be negative in this thread. I started it cuz I'm like "weird" when little things pop up you know...But "weird" in a good way:laugh: ...OK..I'm dying to know is it someone from LS. And if so..who?
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 Theres many random events and occurrences that happen all the time. But a lot of people tend to like to piece them together and find meaning, when ultimately theres typical is not. It feels even better when its a romantic situation, which fuels the feelings even more, as in years of choices brought two people together so they must be "destined" for each other. Destiny, déjà vu, and soulmates are fun to think about, but none of it actually exists. No, I don't believe in the whole "soulmates" and mystical stuff...I'm just in awe about the things that pop-up and I'm like "oookay" I don't see it as "destiny", I see it as two people drawn towards each other cuz they have something the other person desires and the more interaction they have, they both are feeding off of/learning about each other and finding out they have many commonalities and things that make them a "ying/yang".
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 ...OK..I'm dying to know is it someone from LS. And if so..who? Oh dear, he knows who he is... 1
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 Good luck girl! I wish ^^... Lady J is burning for him hard, right now...but **sigh** it ain't happening cuz he's not gonna let it go there. Oh well, I'm gonna have to just admire him from a distance. That's life I guess.
SycamoreCircle Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 LoveShack is becoming like the restaurant industry. 2
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 I wish ^^... Lady J is burning for him hard, right now...but **sigh** it ain't happening cuz he's not gonna let it go there. Oh well, I'm gonna have to just admire him from a distance. That's life I guess. Better said (and before I could edit) Good luck girl! I wish ^^... Lady J is burning for him hard (and trobbing) - to the point if I rub my legs together I'm gonna cum and I can't do that right now cuz I'm trying so hard to be good, right now...but **sigh** it ain't happening cuz he's not gonna let it go there. Oh well, I'm gonna have to just admire him from a distance. That's life I guess. I'm gonna walk away from LS for a few hrs cuz I need to breathe and bring myself down...and posting about this is exciting me more than bringing me down.
preraph Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 You know how many guys go try to use all the pickup tricks they find online, and that mirroring is one of them. So I'd try to validate at least that he did do what he said he did in case he's just trying to say everything to make you like him so he can sleep with you. Just validate it all and then sort it out if it's genuine and you have things in common or not. Do you have any reason to think this guy was around where he COULD follow you before?
Brigit_1 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 I wish ^^... Lady J is burning for him hard, right now...but **sigh** it ain't happening cuz he's not gonna let it go there. Oh well, I'm gonna have to just admire him from a distance. That's life I guess. ...well, if it makes you feel any better you just made my day more interesting. 1
Search4clarity Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 You will know. Wouldn't you?? Wouldn't you just KNOW what you posted, and what someone could have or could not have read into, in order to do what they are doing?? Do you smoke weed?? Cause if you do, that makes you question these things. Is it paranoia, is it coincidence, is it a group manipulation, is it a stalker, or is it GOD??? If you don't....then maybe you should
Author Gloria25 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 You will know. Wouldn't you?? Wouldn't you just KNOW what you posted, and what someone could have or could not have read into, in order to do what they are doing?? Do you smoke weed?? Cause if you do, that makes you question these things. Is it paranoia, is it coincidence, is it a group manipulation, is it a stalker, or is it GOD??? If you don't....then maybe you should Well, some of it is coincidence...and, some of it is him probably checking out LS and/or observing me in real life and simply "mirroring" me. "Mirroring" often takes place when people like someone - we consciously or subconsciously pick up their likes, habits, mannerisms, etc. Geee, I wonder if cuz I used the term "stalker", this thread is coming off more as negative rather than positive? Cuz, I just get in awe sometimes when I notice things - like today...I think I noticed some new ink and on top of my recent "aweness", I was like "whaaaat"?
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