sandchez Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 (edited) Hi since April I have been trying to date this woman. She approached me first on Face Book through a mutual friend. We spoke by telephone several times. I found out she had been married 17 years which ended in divorce. And recently out of another 3 year relationship. She has two grown kids. Several times I had made plans with her to meet. Only to be cancelled. Either because she was busy at work or it wasn't the right time, I don't know. Well after the second flake I stopped communicating with her whatsoever. No telephone calls, texts, etc. She came back initiated contact and we started talking once again. Scheduled even more dates that didn't materialize. So I stopped communicating once again. This happened 3 times. Well about a month ago I had mention to her that I had tickets to see a concert The Rolling Stones. Within the last couple of weeks we were once again talking on the phone with her being really friendly. On Monday this week she suggested getting together this weekend at a city event. I thought great she has an interest. I decided to take her to the concert which was last night. So we agreed to meet outside the venue as I had a little farther to drive. I met her in the parking garage downtown Detroit she jumped in my car and we drove to the concert a few miles away. We had a great time at the concert and the Stones were very good. Its kinda hard at a loud concert to really talk and communicate. She took hundreds of photos and some videos she put on her FB account of the band. After the concert I took her back to her car it was late we both had to work today. We talked a bit on the great show and other stuff. So when she sent me the text earlier in the week about getting together this weekend I brought that up. I asked her what are you doing Saturday? To my surprise she said "I have a date". I sat there and said Ok that's cool I'm dating women also. My true meaning was that it was no big deal if she dated other men. She said it was a boating date set up a long time ago. So we get back to her car and said are goodbyes. No hugs, kisses or anything else. There wasn't any hey had a good time I will see you again, either. So I get home late and see all the pictures that she posted on her FB account. Since we are friends they come up automatically. Now she took all the photos and I was planning on copying everything or most today. So today I can't see anything. There not on her wall for me to see. So I call her and ask "hey why did you restrict me from seeing the photos, I dont get it? Telling her that I have friends who want to see the pics also. She said no maybe she hit something and she would check and fix the problem. Well I know that you have to restrict by going to the persons account and changing settings. I believe that is what she did to me. Why I don't know. I also told her that I asked last night what she was doing this weekend because she initiated it last Monday. She said my response indicated that she thought that I was jealous that she had a date. I told her no that I was only trying to see her again and was a little surprised that she had a date. And then she said she was dating to try and find someone who fits her personality. Which is what we all want really right? But she also indicated that her recent break up from her boyfriend of 3 years felt like a second divorce. So maybe this is what its all about. She isn't over him. So these responses tell me to take a hike right? That she wants nothing further from me. That's how I'm reading it. What do you all think? So I once again plan on stopping communication with her. But the thing is she always comes back. Three times I did that. I do like the girl but I'm not chasing her. Do you think if I stop communicating she will attempt to get back in my life again in the future? And I still can't see the pics lol. Thank you for responses. Edited July 9, 2015 by sandchez
phineas Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 TLDNR. All I needed to do was read the first sentence & see the page of text to know you will never date this chick and wasting your time.
fred123 Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 she only got back in touch with you because you had tickets to the rolling stones!! she was using you for the tickets. can you not see how she didnt want to meet you and all of a sudden you have tickets she is keen to see you???!!
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