Calidude6 Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 For me personally while I'm copying, I think back at my relationship and realize some of things I did that I like to take blame for. How come we realize we take some people for granted after the break up rather than during the relationship? I believe I took my ex for granted and I never noticed it. Never noticed how comfortable I was with her till I think about it since we broke up. Are these mistakes we make supposed to happen so we can improve ourselves and become better for our next relationship? Why couldn't I've noticed this or knew this before my ex? Honestly, from my different relationships, I've never felt so comfortable with someone before till I met her, I didn't have to fight so hard for their love that I took her for granted. We were way too much alike in many ways that it felt so easy and natural without thinking I still needed to show her the want and desire women love. It's growing pains I assume. I'm just a little upset without myself that i could of prevented a break up from happening but instead, I realize I took her for granted and that hurts to know because she broke up with me due to that. I just don't want to be moved on and have her realizing she might of made a mistake and come back to me. My ex before her did that to me and came back. I should of learned from that one.
15Love Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 Are these mistakes we make supposed to happen so we can improve ourselves and become better for our next relationship? Perhaps! Let it be a painful lesson that you hold dear...and don't fo it again Take this time to learn about yourself and grow..for her, if she were to come back, or for someone new.
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