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I'll explain. About 10 days ago around the end of June I bought a new hat for work. I don't really buy new hats that often. For the last 11 months I shaved every 3-4 days. Now I have been shaving every 2 days.

 

So fast forward to just this past Monday when my crush comes to work with a new pair of blue jeans that look as dark as mine and also a new pair of shoes that look similar to mine. Not the same color but the same style of tennis shoes. She never wore tennis shoes before. She always wore black shoes for years.

 

So she does this about 1 week after I update my work hat. I have gotten conpliments from other colleagues about the hat so obviously something about it stands out for everyone to notice.

 

I don't know if she just coincidentally decided it was time for an update close to the time I bought a new hat or if she is trying to tell me something through mimicking me. No I didn't compliment her. I didn't say anything about her new dress appearance.

 

If this was the only time this happened I would have been inclined to think nothing more than just a fluke coincidence but I remember one other instance last year when she updated some things clothing wise soon after I did.

 

Also given the history that she has to mimick some of my other behavior such as turning her head away when she sees me walking past her. I've turned my head away when I see her coming my way. If I avoid her for a day then she will avoid me back for a day as if she is trying to get back at me. Now we are not accepting cheeseburgers from each other using the same excuse I would about having a full stomach.

 

I also remember back in April when I began to get cravings for five guys burgers regularly I would overhear her behind me telling a work colleague that she went to five guys the night before. This was like a couple weeks after I started going. I don't recall her going to five guys before especially since she has told me before that she can't afford to eat out that often and goes home to eat. That day she told someone else about going to five guys the night before she brought in some peanuts from five guys and offered some for everybody except me. She excluded me purposely and that bothered me.

 

Then back in June I think it was the 2nd week I told a few of my work colleagues that I usually go to Cheesecake Factory for my birthday which would be June 23. Then I remember just a few days before my birthday my crush and I were talking normally. The tension between us was very relaxed that day and it seemed like the walls were falling more on her end. That's when she told me that her and her daughter went to Cheesecake Factory the night before.

 

So there's been some coincidental things happening. I can't really prove anything. If I started mimicking her in some ways she wouldn't be able to prove I was really doing it.

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If she orders the same kind of cheeseburger as you....file a restraining order....

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If she orders the same kind of cheeseburger as you....file a restraining order....

 

Actually believe it or not she does. We both do not want pickles or oinions on the cheeseburger.

 

I showed her a picture of my cat since she loves animals. Turns out she has a cat that looks like mine. Same color eyes and same color skin. That's what she tells me.

 

I know you were joking about the restraining order thing and it was an exaggeration too but yeah having too much in common can be a red flag too. I don't want to date the female version of myself because then we would clash. So both extremes are bad whether having too much or too little in common.

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Is she also dying of a mysterious disease?

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Is she also dying of a mysterious disease?

 

Possibly. I guess I am waiting for her to get sick so that I have an excuse to step in and get that much closer to her and help keep her comfortable if she even still wants a boyfriend at that time.

 

We were both effected by the same chemical exposures years ago. Whatever she has could manifest a year or two from now or even months from now. I already had my manifestation in 2012.

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