Jonbones Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 I'm pretty terrible at thinking things through with a girl so any help is great. I went on this date with a girl and I had a lot of fun. It seems like she did too. She was laughing the whole time and pushing me playfully. I'm just having a difficult time reading her. She was very open about a lot of things but at the same time she claims to have a dark past and therefor considers herself a bad person. She is hard on herself. I just don't get how she doesn't see what I do. Anyway she made a statement about how she hates being touched. The only person she'll hold hands with is her special needs sister. The funny part was she rubbed my back for an example in a story. And I then rubbed her elbow. She didn't pull away. I'm not sure how to take her. She worked form 6am-6pm and had a hurt back and still came and had fun. She said she had fun anyway. Now here's my issue she hasn't said anything about that night to me. We have seen each other in person. She didn't really mention it. We talked and stuff but not a word. She isn't a girly girl. From her stories it sounds like she is hard to get close to. I don't know if this plays an effect or not. Either I need help on what to do next.
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 Call her & ask for another date. Keep letting her touch you.
Author Jonbones Posted July 9, 2015 Author Posted July 9, 2015 Call her & ask for another date. Keep letting her touch you. So do you think it looks good though? Even if she hasn't said anything about it. Even in person?
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 It was one date. You had fun. You think she did too. It certainly doesn't look bad.
Author Jonbones Posted July 9, 2015 Author Posted July 9, 2015 It was one date. You had fun. You think she did too. It certainly doesn't look bad. Thank you! I'm trying to get a feel for how to understand this situation. She is very honest and blunt so I figure she wouldn't have told me she had fun if she didn't. Or she probably would have just said bye.
angel.eyes Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 The way to understand the situation is to ask her out on another date. Yes = it went well and she wants to continue. No = No thanks. I'm not interested in exploring this any further. That's the only way to get clarity.
Author Jonbones Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 The way to understand the situation is to ask her out on another date. Yes = it went well and she wants to continue. No = No thanks. I'm not interested in exploring this any further. That's the only way to get clarity. Ok then I didn't get either. I asked if she like to get together sometime next week if she had a free day and she responded with "Haha uhm maybe… lol just depends if I'm free cause I think I'm quite busy next week! Sorry!! Lol". I do know she is actually busy at work. In fact I know for sure on 3 of the days she literally works all day. She did this the first time I ever asked her out. I just told her to let me know when she found out and she said "sure!"
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