Author Mark715 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Is she like that with other people too or just this guy? It's the first time I ever seen her act that way
RightThere Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Anyone's wife get like that around a older man? Yes. That means she's having an affair. 2
Author Mark715 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Yes. That means she's having an affair. Most likely
RightThere Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Everyone has there opinion! I'm looking for those people that have had this experience, or older gentleman that have been with younger married women She's totally having an affair. You need to initiate divorce proceedings immediately. Either that or you could...maybe...talk to your wife about it.....? Naw. Totally a full blown affair. 2
Noideanow Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Are you away everyday at work? Or are you too a farmer? Maybe she is feeling good having a man near to her when youre away and she May be scared your having an affair with one of your colleagues, just my fantasy rolling i think you too shall have a talk right now about your deepest emotions and fears/ i sure would be concerned if i had a partner that was more happy around somebody else than me, time for talking:o his age should matter you still have to take it seriously i think:o
Author Mark715 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 She's totally having an affair. You need to initiate divorce proceedings immediately. Either that or you could...maybe...talk to your wife about it.....? Naw. Totally a full blown affair. Your wife has had a affair with a older gentleman?
pondhawk Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Well, being giddy doesn't mean she is cheating or wants to. Is there anything other kind of behavior that doesn't sit well with you or just the giddy part? I might be giddy around someone I think is extremely handsome but I wouldn't ruin my marriage over it.
Noideanow Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Correction, wanted to say age should not matter//
Author Mark715 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Are you away everyday at work? Or are you too a farmer? Maybe she is feeling good having a man near to her when youre away and she May be scared your having an affair with one of your colleagues, just my fantasy rolling i think you too shall have a talk right now about your deepest emotions and fears/ i sure would be concerned if i had a partner that was more happy around somebody else than me, time for talking:o his age should matter you still have to take it seriously i think:o Thanks, and yes I work everyday and she has the summer off! 1
Morro72 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 ...he was a nice guy in his middle to late sixties. My wife is 34, she is a teacher and gets the summers off. She loves being in the country and loves living next to the farm. One thing I noticed is every time he is around she gets all giddy like a teenager. Anyone's wife get like that around a older man? I'm not quite that age but close and, come to think of it, my wife has been acting pretty strange around me lately. I think she might be having sex with me behind my back but I can't get turned around fast enough to catch her in the act. 4
Author Mark715 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Well, being giddy doesn't mean she is cheating or wants to. Is there anything other kind of behavior that doesn't sit well with you or just the giddy part? I might be giddy around someone I think is extremely handsome but I wouldn't ruin my marriage over it. I work everyday and she has summers off so I don't know if she acts any differently when I'm not there! We had him stay and have lunch Saturday and I noticed he couldn't keep his eyes off her
RightThere Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Your wife has had a affair with a older gentleman? Actually yes, my soon-to-be-ex-wife did sleep with a much older guy. But not because she was giddy. It had more to do with the fact that she was a horrible human being. 1
pondhawk Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 We had him stay and have lunch Saturday and I noticed he couldn't keep his eyes off her Ooooo....I don't like that. Have you asked her about the feeling you get between the both of them? Does she get angry and defensive? Or is she kind and reassuring that there's nothing to this? If you have a gut feeling that won't go away, I would go undercover and do some detective work. Is there anyway to set up a motion detection camera in the yard somewhere facing the front door or back door?? Seems extreme but if you have to know....
Author Mark715 Posted July 15, 2015 Author Posted July 15, 2015 Ooooo....I don't like that. Have you asked her about the feeling you get between the both of them? Does she get angry and defensive? Or is she kind and reassuring that there's nothing to this? If you have a gut feeling that won't go away, I would go undercover and do some detective work. Is there anyway to set up a motion detection camera in the yard somewhere facing the front door or back door?? Seems extreme but if you have to know.... I have said stuff to her in small talk like " you better watch out for the dirty old man " and she just shrugged and said something like she wasn't worried
Poutrew Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Mark715, you need to do some sneaky stuff in order to find out what she is doing while you are at work. First, go to Staples or some other office store and get 2 or 3 digital voice recorders. They can record for a couple days off of one set of batteries. Turn them on and leave them in some strategic places in your house - living room, kitchen, and of course, bedroom, and maybe bathroom (just make sure you don't put them where she could find them cleaning). When you get home download the file from the recorder into a computer and look to see if it caught anything unusual. It helps to peruse the file with some type of sound editor such as Sound Forge, which will show voice as spikes on a graph, which you can then go to and listen to them. Next, install a hidden camera on an out building, but aimed at the front door, and another one at the back door. Now you will know when she comes and goes and for how long, as well as who she lets into your house. If you see the old codger coming in at 9:30, and leaving at 11:00, then you know you have a problem. Then the next step is to get a key logger onto her computer, and some hidden cameras put into your bedroom, or where ever you think she is doing the dirty with this OM. Get your evidence first, then confront her and get ready for the lies, excuses, and pleadings of innocence. Heck, with him being a farmer, this could even turn out to your advantage. In the old days, farmers would trade their women for livestock - maybe you could trade her to the old guy (as a bed warmer) for a couple head of cattle, some sheep and a dozen egg laying chickens.
Author Mark715 Posted July 17, 2015 Author Posted July 17, 2015 Today is the day i kissed her goodbye and told her I would see her tonight. She has no idea I will be home by lunch time, there is a pull off just down the road from our house where I'm going to leave the car and walk to the house. And just in case yes I'm going to let the air out of a tire.
StanMusial Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Perhaps farmer smells like manure, and giggling is a way to increase air flow in and out thru the nose? That would just make it worse. 2
Dolcezza Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Hi. I am new to this discussion forum but I just wanted to put in my two cents, especially after reading a lot of what seemed like pretty bad advice. The problem is that this man thinks your wife is hot. She is picking up on that and can't help but be flattered. But it only gets worse from there, because he is constantly wanting her and validating her etc. You on the other hand should not be watching, observing, or spying. You should be flattering your wife more than him, and letting her know she is sexy and that you want to keep her. I would lay it on very thick because you are competing with a man who is fascinated by her relative youth and beauty. Then you should tell him to back the F off. Don't pretend you don't notice to him. But unless she has actually cheated, continue to be nice to her because she is human and this is not her fault. And yes, I am a woman. 3
Ms. Red Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Today is the day i kissed her goodbye and told her I would see her tonight. She has no idea I will be home by lunch time, there is a pull off just down the road from our house where I'm going to leave the car and walk to the house. And just in case yes I'm going to let the air out of a tire. How can you leave us with this and no update? Dolcezza below/above has some good advice IMO.
Dolcezza Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 below/above has some good advice IMO. Thanks Ms. Red. I took a minute to scroll back and find the advice of a poster named below/above. Not finding anything, I felt pretty sure you were talking about me.
Phoenician Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Mark , I don't know if your wife is sleeping with old guy or not , but let me just advise you few things : -be rational , don't take advises that are fast and furious ... -may be it is just an innocent act ; be cautious but not irrational . -watch things without any act , don't even mention to her that you are disturbed from his existance , if she is cheating on you this will make her cautious , and if not this will break her heart . -I am not defending her , but when you say your sexlife is fine ; just analyze if it is taking long enough to have her aroused , like are you taking your time exiting her before PIV ... the main reason a wife would think about cheating with an older guy is to expect a long playfull intercourse, some women orgasm from it more than PIV. Tak it easy now man , it could be nothing , and if nothing is happening hopefull , it could be a good thing : see how to enhnce your relationship with your wife .... read my signature : 1
Ms. Red Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Edited to hopefully make more sense: "Dolcezza" who's post is below or above mine (depending on your forum view option for oldest first or newest first), has some good advice IMO. below/above has some good advice IMO. Thanks Ms. Red. I took a minute to scroll back and find the advice of a poster named below/above. Not finding anything, I felt pretty sure you were talking about me. Yes, I was talking about you. I re-wrote my post here to hopefully make more sense. And, I asked my son if my post was confusing and he said he could see how someone would think "below/above" was a member name.
Dolcezza Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Ms. Red, I was just teasing. Your post made just as much sense as most things. Its me that is brand new to this forum so I was thinking that maybe these posts read differently on different browsers or something. <i>How can you leave us with this and no update? What a way to leave a thread hanging. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 This spring we bought a house out in the country nex to a farm! We met the farmer and he was a nice guy in his middle to late sixties. My wife is 34, she is a teacher and gets the summers off. She loves being in the country and loves living next to the farm. One thing I noticed is every time he is around she gets all giddy like a teenager. Anyone's wife get like that around a older man? Might not have to do with age, but being a rugged farmer. Sounds very manly. He looks like he is in good shap! And he is definitely tall Yep, that sounds very alluring. Even I want to lick my chops a bit right now. I'm not into the rugged type, but farmer....ooooh yeah. Not looking good. Divorce while you can before it's too late.
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