rev Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 So I met a great girl online that has a lot in common and gets along great with me. We talked on the phone for hours at a time for about a week before we met. Date One went great, I kissed her at the end and it left a great impression. She wanted to see me the next day and so we went out. I impressed her with my brain that night through the activity and she was all over me, hugs, kisses, cuddling etc... That night she slept over. In the morning things got heated and a lot of foreplay ensued. I stopped before sex as I want to be bf/gf before sex. Anyway, she left but I later found out that she was put off by me stopping the foreplay. She thought I wasn't interested or didn't know why I wouldn't continue. I explained it and she seemed ok. We continued talking on the phone for hours at a time and as usual it was great. Date 3 was a few days later and she came over my place. We cuddled up, watched a movie and it got physical again. We moved it over to the bedroom where it turned to sex. I could't hold off the urges as she couldn't and I felt like I really liked her. It was great at first but then out of nowhere I lost my erection. I am not sure if it was nerves, my recent diet change or supplements I take but it was complete embarrassment. I tried to recover, using other methods to pleasure her but it didn't happen and I could tell it messed it up for her as well... We kind of just went to sleep after that and in the morning it was a bit awkward. The subject was not brought up, I tried to maintain affection with her but it seemed one sided as I was the one putting the effort. I didn't really hear from her all day so I figured I would message her how her day was. Here response was "it's good just on a double date". With that being said we had already planned another date the next day so I was a bit confused. The next morning I message her about our plans and she made an excuse to break them so I bit the bullet and started to talk about the sex issue. She to was confused about it and thought it was because of her etc... I reassured her it wasn't her and I was very much into her. She seemed accepting about it but somewhat disappointed at the same time. She then said "Maybe it wasn't meant to happen", I replied by saying "No second chances" she replied with "we will see how it goes". Day went by and I had not heard from her and she was leaving for Italy to work the next morning for 4 days. My last ditch effort to save this was a message. I said "Have a great time in Italy, feel free to call me and if I didn't scare you off lets do dinner when you get back". The next day she messaged back "Thanks with a wink face". Any advice on this, I don't want to lose this girl.
wizer Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 When you lost your erection you lost the girl. Life can be cruel.
S_A Posted July 9, 2015 Posted July 9, 2015 (edited) She thinks it was her fault. She's embarrassed because she thinks you're not that in to her. Edited July 9, 2015 by S_A 1
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