what does it mean?

[XDarkmoonX]

So what does it mean when your ex asks you what you've been up to. You tell her a few of the hobbies you've taken up etc. Then like the next day all of a sudden your interests and hobbies are now hers lol. I've lost 24lbs, started rock climbing, taken up dancing, and I'm learning to roller skate. The next day her Facebook feed blows up with. "Going to a dance class.", "I'm taking up roller skating.", etc.

She's free to do what she wants. She made it clear after four years were done. Just i dunno feels like she's a loser trying to copy me. I find it funny. Just curious if anybody else has had this type of thing happen?

[dumbass2]

She was hoping that you were still down in the dumps and not doing so great because she may not be. She's a little jealous that you are doing good. Ex's don't usually like to see the other doing so well and having a good time without them, but it doesn't mean they want to get back with you.

 

At issue here is why are you still in contact with your ex and why are you two still friends on Facebook?

[XDarkmoonX]

Meh I'm done with the whole situation. I wouldn't take her back if she wanted. The reason we talked was because i couldn't fit all my stuff in my car when i left. After about one month and two weeks i kinda missed my flatscreen lol.

I don't believe in reconciliation not after my ex wife and i tried. The dumper almost never changes because they dont feel they have to. While if the dumpee is not the type to lay about crying and actually makes changes the dumper does take interest. If both don't change it wont last.

We were happily together four years. Even she herself said it was the best relationship she's ever had. She left me the week before our wedding. She proposed to me. She said she wanted out because she suddenly got the urge to date around. My guess is GIGS. I was lucky though. Saved me a divorce.

Since our break up I've turned my life around. I feel very positive and smile more than i have since i can remember.