fred123 Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 Iv met someone online (facebook) again! We have been chatting and get on so well. Id likw to organise a date in person but due to geography its difficult. I know people will say find someone local but i just want advice how does one handle this differently to other girls people have met online. Im trying to get her off facebookk and on the phone or skype. Is this the way to do this? I want to get to know her better
d0nnivain Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 You say hey what's your phone #? I'd like to call you. When you get her on the phone you say, hey, do you have the ability to Skype or Face time? Wanna try it? After you have a few of those interactions, let her know if you have reason to be in her area & ask if you can meet in person. If you are going to try to organize special trip just to visit her you will need to coordinate the dates with her.
Vintage79 Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 Yeah - there are only 2 ways to get her off of Facebook and onto the phone/skype: 1. Ask her for her number so that you can chat on the phone/skype 2. Wait for her to ask for your number, or offer hers, so that you can chat on the phone/skype Don't over think it - the answers are usually pretty obvious.
Author fred123 Posted July 10, 2015 Author Posted July 10, 2015 i understand what you are saying Gary but i just wanted to know how to go about this and to make sure i know the signs of a girl who is interested. ok she has given me her phone number and i told her i like to Skype as its better than sending loads of messages every day to each other on Facebook. donnivan- you say its simple but last time was a nightmare getting the girl on Skype. do girls normally message a guy every day unless they must like him right? she must be interested in me as more than a friend? she has seen my pics on Facebook
d0nnivain Posted July 10, 2015 Posted July 10, 2015 No I said asking the Q was simple. I have never skyped in my life & if somebody asked me to do it the answer would probably be I don't know how. Daily contact alone is not a measure of her kind of interest. She may like you. She may be bored & you provide a pleasant enough distraction. I talk to lots of people close to every day who I have no interest in dating so frequency alone doesn't mean much.
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