ashley83 Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 When someone says that they love you and want to spend the rest of their lives with you.....how can they go back the next day and squelch their feelings for something practical as in they're not ready for a commitment......to me emotions trump logic. I don't get it...is this most guys???
Pocky Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Logically speaking, shouldn't your first consideration include the possibility that love was never really a factor at all?
Author ashley83 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 meaning.....he didn't really love me? It certainly seemed like he did.
Weird Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 so ou want to know how someone can say they love you one day and then the next day basically back off from that? If so, I have no idea. Humans are messed up. I honestly think 75% of people out there have no concept of love and just say it to people because it sounds good or because they think they should say it. I think most people are simply infatuated with others and when the infatuation wears off or if push comes to shove, they will ditch the person for whatever else is there in their life.
SinceIvebeenlovingU Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Ummmm don't get hasty thinking its just "males"....from my understanding a woman can tell you she still loves you but just wants to "find herself"...meaning (I'm looking for the BBD) soooooo...I would look at the question your asking..
Author ashley83 Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 i didn't mean to say just males....i mean any person....ya know. I've always been the type of person who says they love someone only if absolutely sure.
UCFKevin Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 Same thing happened to me. My ex did the same exact thing. So it ain't just males, sweetheart.
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