Cup Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 I seriously am starting to believe that I'm a masochist. A male friend of mine - we ended up kissing after not speaking to each other for a number of months and the chemistry unfortunately was there. Unfortunately because he is a 23 year old narcissist and has no intentions of being in a relationship - he told me this when we were speaking about a girl that he used to see. He contacts me either via text or phone daily and we chat about things and he keeps asking me out. The problem is that I don't trust him as I'm aware of his history and the more we chat, the more I am liking him. But I know his type and so have not seen him since that day. Our kiss has never been mentioned by either of us and I feel that it is the white elephant during our conversations. I refuse to be the girl who he sees until he is a) either bored or b) decides to move on to another. I really do enjoy spending time with him even though deep down I know that he will walk away once he is bored as he has done it to others before me. Why hasn't he spoken to me about our romantic day? Why does he continue to flirt with me? Why the hell do I attract players? How do I maintain my integrity? I will NOT allow him to use me but I don't want him thinking that I'm walking away because I don't want to be hurt. Ugh I sound like such a child Thanks
mystikmind2005 Posted July 8, 2015 Posted July 8, 2015 Well, the thing with narcissists, they would absolutely NEVER admit to being one (unless it is part of their strategy of manipulation). He may have some narcissist tendencies, but he is not a narcissist. However, a person who dumps people flippantly is not someone you want to be giving your heart too, obviously. People say i give up too easily when i get dumped, but it is not giving up, it is realizing that woman is willing to dump over some shallow reason is not worth chasing, "ok bye, there's the door, seya". It is not a viable foundation to build a relationship upon.
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