Nomad Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Ok, I know there've been a million posts like this, but I'm asking it again. When you're in a bar & there's a girl you want to talk to, but she's with a group of friends, what's the move? Approaching a girl by herself is one thing, but how to approach a girl in a group without looking like a fool?
jen03 Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Sit somewhere where you can make eye contact with only her. Look at her directly and smile friendly. If she smiles back and appears interested, she'll find a way to excuse herself or go the bathroom to give you your chance. Then approach her and comment on how she stands out from the rest of the girls and looks really pretty, etc, or however you do your thing. If you just randomly approach her as she's going to the bathroom, you'll catch her off guard. Women (as far as I am concerned, lol) like to anticipate certain things and be prepared somewhat, otherwise you may startle her and come off as stalkerish. Depends on how good you look (just kidding!)
Author Nomad Posted June 12, 2005 Author Posted June 12, 2005 Girls, any more ideas on this?? Guys, any success stories about hitting on girls in groups you want to share?
sarah12 Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 I don't really see why it's so bad to hit on a girl when she's with her friends. Obviously she is going to be with her friends at the bar! So just go up to her, usually the friends will naturally gravitate away from you two so you can talk to her. Say hi and then compliment her, introduce yourself and ask her if you can buy her a drink. We are just people, nothing to be afraid of!
BrotherAaron Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 Go introduce yourself to the whole group. Smile, be charming, funny, whatever it is you do when you normally approach a crowd. After you've broken the ice, gotten the girls talking, maybe even gotten a few laughs (a couple minutes, maybe), grab her hand and say "Excuse us ladies, I'm going to borrow her for a second" and lead her off somewhere where you can chat (but not somewhere that scares her, like a dark alley ) That's just one idea. The point is, don't be intimidated by the group, and have some balls.
sarah12 Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 Go introduce yourself to the whole group. I completely forgot about this one. This has worked for my friends, but usually the guy in question has got a great sense of humour. If so, then go for it, the girls will love you. As for grabbing her hand and taking her off, I wouldn't suggest this as she may be unwilling. I'd suggest just staying there with the group but paying more attention to the one you are interested in.
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