donezo Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 I messed up and will try to get her back...ill let you know how i did it
Gloria25 Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 Ok, I read your other postings about you and this gal and I think "fighting" for her, nagging her, etc is just gonna push her away. People don't come back cuz you nag them to death. They come back cuz they "seeee" changes. Tell them all you want that you've done this/that but until they see it with their own eyes...forget it. Like others advised you. Take this time to learn from this break up, improve yourself and either of these two things will happen: (1) You clean up your act and are so shiny/new that another chick picks you up; or (2) Your ex sees you have changed and wants to try again. But seriously, you are so obsessed about something that didn't even last 4 months? Dating is to figure out if we're a match. That takes like 1 1/2 to 2 years to do. The fact that you showed her your bad ways in 4 months means she thankfully didn't have to waste 1 1/2 years to figure out you aren't mature/healthy enough for a RL with her or anybody. 2
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 There is nothing to fight for. Your relationship wasn't long enough to merit this kind of effort. You got together & she quickly determined you weren't the guy for her. Trying to "fight for her" will at best lower you in her eyes because you will act like a clingy door mat or land you on the wrong side of a restraining order. Just leave it be. Spend your time & energy healing. 2
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