I like this girl and all but its really hard to want to be with her fully

[pjm123]

She wanted me to stop being guarded lol i told her stories ive heard and what id been through she basically said put ball in my court want me to lead relationship so i am skeptical on what to do i just want to enjoy our time and have sex hangout etc.. She turned 33 i am 27.

 

Any advice? I told her bout women and what i learned n stuff she said wont be like that but lol people say stuff so.....

[d0nnivain]

Plan some dates. Take the lead that way.

 

 

Be a little forceful with her sexually. I'm not talking kinky here (unless that is what you both want). I'm talking pushing her up against a wall & kissing her passionately until her head spins; walking up behind her when she's looking away from you & nibbling on her neck; picking her up & gently tossing her on the bed.

 

 

Also when talking, share something personal like the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you or your biggest fear as a kid.

[pjm123]

Ivr already done a majority of that stuff im sayin im skeptical bout getting in relationship with her after things i have learned from women

[d0nnivain]

You are afraid of generalizations Stop thinking about what you think you know about women in general. Start analyzing her as an individual.

[JJCaliGirl]

Ivr already done a majority of that stuff im sayin im skeptical bout getting in relationship with her after things i have learned from women

 

You need to not follow what you've heard and go with your gut. You actually sound like my ex. Are you my ex?! He didn't want to pursue a relationship because he was afraid of getting hurt. At some point, you need to put your heart on the line because you will either have the most amazing relationship or one in which you do get hurt. Relationships are a gamble and it sounds like she's putting her money on you. Don't string her along because you heard things.