ww Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 As I promised I am keeping you updated about how my story went ( goes ) several months of NO CONTACT. I am feeling great. Not even thinking about him lately and even if he crawls in my thoughts I just delete him. Settling down, making promises and pledging to be there for ever...I am getting married soon
Circles Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 I am still fairly new to this site. I have seen you around, but I am not familiar with your story. Still I am happy for you with your progress.
Naive Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by ww As I promised I am keeping you updated about how my story went ( goes ) several months of NO CONTACT. I am feeling great. Not even thinking about him lately and even if he crawls in my thoughts I just delete him. Settling down, making promises and pledging to be there for ever...I am getting married soon CONGRATULATIONS. It takes a lot to move on!! Why? I don't know. It's just hard to move on specially when you have been turned down for someone else.
curly Posted May 3, 2005 Posted May 3, 2005 ww - I'm not familiar with your story either. But I'm confused. You're getting married soon? I'm freaked out that you've moved on that much but still think about him. I may be saying this wrong, but what's up? I'm really only thinking of myself & not questioning your situation. Is it truly possible to break away from MM and form a new relationship with someone else & thoughts of MM stay with you? Please tell me this is not possible. I am counting the days when I won't wonder about him. When I'll feel good again. Thoughts of him won't make my stomach flip-flop, etc. you know the drill... When are you getting married? How long since the A ended?
Author ww Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 my long story very short: - had a bf -fell in love with a MM -after almost a year and a half had 8 month A with him - had a really hard time to get over him ( suffered like hell for a year and a half ) -worked on my relationship with bf -confessed to my bf everything ...and from that point everything moved on -it was very hard and still it is ( not forgetting about him for he is gone form my heart and mind ) but to connect with my bf and start things over -i am getting married very soon I THINK I AM VERY LUCKY. IN FACT I MIGHT BE HAVING MORE LUCK THAN BRAINS!
Author ww Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 my long story very short: - had a bf -fell in love with a MM -after almost a year and a half had 8 month A with him - had a really hard time to get over him ( suffered like hell for a year and a half ) -worked on my relationship with bf -confessed to my bf everything ...and from that point everything moved on -it was very hard and still it is ( not forgetting about him for he is gone form my heart and mind ) but to connect with my bf and start things over -i am getting married very soon I THINK I AM VERY LUCKY. IN FACT I MIGHT BE HAVING MORE LUCK THAN BRAINS!
Author ww Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 TO CURLY: ...nothing lasts forever and we all know hearts can change... i was counting days too ( once, long ago ) but it passes , you will see. I think the time I wasted for him was a big mistake.( not that i did not love him . I did and at that time I thought I could never live without him. I thought he was the love of my life. Obviously I was blind and naive. But passion was really strong )
Author ww Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 i have met him today. after a long time. he said hi i said hi and i moved on. I thought all this time it could make me suffer if we meet so i was totally avoiding places where we could meet. well today we met and to tell you the truth I felt nothing. really nothing. well it has made me think about him for a while but in conclusion : FELT NOTHING SPECIAL FOR HIM. It was like meeting some ex high school good friend I once knew but than we lost touch. AMAZING
Author ww Posted May 3, 2005 Author Posted May 3, 2005 i have met him today. after a long time. he said hi i said hi and i moved on. I thought all this time it could make me suffer if we meet so i was totally avoiding places where we could meet. well today we met and to tell you the truth I felt nothing. really nothing. well it has made me think about him for a while but in conclusion : FELT NOTHING SPECIAL FOR HIM. It was like meeting some ex high school good friend I once knew but than we lost touch. AMAZING
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