Trace Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 I broke up with my fiance 3 months ago, we were together for 3 years, but it was a really unhealthy relationship, and it took a lot to leave it. He blocked me on FB and I just stopped using other social apps, deleted his number. I was feeling really low this morning, I still love him, wearing those rose coloured glasses about the good bits of the relationship we had, totally forgetting the emotional abuse he put me through. Also I found out he is seeing someone new, for the past 2 months and is in love (which is fine, he is no longer with me). It was by a mutual friend, she just blurted it out So me in this mood totally by accident noticed he unblocked me on FB. I saw his comments on old photos, I was deleting. So those he misses me, his re-bound relationship is over thoughts came into my head. I messaged him, he read the message then blocked me again. In reality what I should have thought was he has moved on and feels comfortable unblocking me, he is waiting to see if I will bite and message him for an ego stroke. How do you think I feel saying hello and him totally ignoring me? You guessed it, like square one when I ended my relationship (yes we feel it too, not just those that are 'dumped'). So when you find yourself hoping that he/she misses you, wants to get back together, squash it. Maintain NC and move on. If he/she really wanted to be with you, they would be in touch saying lets get back together, work things out, anything short of that, it's an ego boost, checking you are still cut up while they have moved on. Take those rose coloured glasses off, throw them on the floor and stamp on them
QueenDafine Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 Preaaachh. So many people make that mistake and it ends up making them feel even more ****. Crush your on hope before they do!
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