Confused602 Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 My back story for any who are curious http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/534385-over So, my boyfriend and I recently went on a break right after Father's Day weekend. He said he wanted to make us work, but that at the same time he wasn't sure what he wants and is afraid of commitment. That we are to continue on together, he wants to be able to give it 100%. Well, it's been two weeks, and we haven't spoken to one another. Except for one time, where we ran into each other in person and I brought up the break. He said there is still a part of him that wants this to work, but is still conflicted. I suggested seeing each other perhaps and he said that it would be nice for us to meet up and go have a little fun. That was last week, and neither one of us reached out. I personally feel like since he initiated the break, that he should be trying to reach out to me. But that's just me. As much as I would love for us to work, I am considering breaking it off at this point, what do you guys think?
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 Read a pop psychology book entitled They Call It A Breakup Because It's Broken. He wanted out & while his words were equivocal he used wishy washy language because he didn't want to hurt your feelings more then he already had. Just let it go.
Author Confused602 Posted July 7, 2015 Author Posted July 7, 2015 Yea, I'm just living my own life. It's hard, but it'll get better. If he ever wants to reach me, he knows how to do it. Other than that, just going to live life. 1
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