Kylemopar Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 So we haven't really texted in about a month but she keeps telling me that she's stressed, has a lot of problems to deal with, and that just needs some space. She doesn't handle stress very well. Seeing that she's a very emotionally fragile 26 year old that she has a lot of things to take care of as an adult and that she doesn't have much time to go around chasing guys and I understand I really do. I have asked her to tell me that whenever she loses interest in me and not to give me any false hope cause that would hurt a lot more. But she just keeps telling me to wait and be patient with her, that she's not ignoring me. But even though we work next to each other and our jobs share the parking lot I haven't seen her in a month. She still keeps a teddy bear in her car that I once gave her and she parked next to me last Thursday when she usually parks opposite from me. She doesn't even reply to a simple good morning anymore. She doesn't go to the gym or the club anymore so is her stress and busy life really the cause of her not talking to me or did she over me? And a couple days before she stopped replying I took her out on a date and through out dinner she kept staring into my eyes and I into hers, at the end she gave me the tightest hug I ever had along with a kiss on the cheek, then a couple days later BAM, little to no communication for a month. It's been a very long month for me. She says she keeps the panda because she likes it and that I'm a very sweet guy, she's had it placed all over her car. Now it's just sitting in the back seat. Does she keep cause she still cares? Or does she just have to be nice? If she doesn't want me anymore why doesn't she just tell me? I told her to do so if she is, I told her that false hope hurts even more so why doesn't she just straight up tell me that she's not interested anymore? I took a desperate measure and had a friend of mine text her to try get at her and see what she does, and she said that she wasn't interested in him. She also said that there is a guy but that she wasn't interested in anyone that she only cares about herself, her job, and her family. So should I still wait? I really love this girl.
rmuscle Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 Give her what she want. You press her then u will lose her for good. Unfortunately, when people are stressed and going through problems no telling the time frame of the light at the end of their problems. Why she need to go through her issues excluding you is many reasons she won't admit..Hang on there! If she need u then be there for her. Listen to her and leave her alone
DaisyBug Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 Sorry, but she is just not that into you and is probably turned off by you panting like a dog at her. Not sure why she's dangling you by a thread, though.
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