bluebear2364 Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Hey there, I've known this lovely and sweet girl for about two months now. We get along pretty well, we share the same interests, and we enjoy each other's company. We hang out often, such as watching movies and going to the bar and all, but I don't think it has ever been "confirmed" that we're a couple yet, and I'm not sure how I should "make that announcement" to her. While we have hung out just ourselves quite often, I think it's still on the "very good friend" level, and not on the dating/couple level. How should I tell her that I'm interested in her? I've asked her out to dinner with me b4, saying like "would you like to have dinner with me on ___ ?," but still, I think she just perceives us a very good friends, nothing more, though I also know she's interested in me too. I've never been in a relationship before, so this is all very new to me. Thanks, bb2364
Marshbear Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Women like an assertive guy. Take the direct approcah since you say she likes you also. The next time you go out do some touching and see how she responds ( touch her arm, shoulder, hair,etc. ). Say you like her and would like to go on a real date ( not just as friends ). If she is interested she will let you know...
noname Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 uhhhhh, she is probably waiting for you to make some kind of move. if you are interested, you better act before you get in the "friend zone". say soemthing or do something. life is too short to assume that the other people can read your mind...
Mattaius Posted May 7, 2005 Posted May 7, 2005 this will seem really un-macho and pottentially girly, but if you like some on who is a close friend, by this book and read it, Love tactics, how to win the one you want, by McKnight and Phillips Id say you are half of the way there, and a relationship with a best friend will be extemely rearding for you both if you get there. but read this book it will make so much sence, and i promise you, it will show you exactly what you need to do.
noname Posted May 8, 2005 Posted May 8, 2005 Originally posted by Mattaius this will seem really un-macho and pottentially girly, but if you like some on who is a close friend, by this book and read it, aaaawwwww shucks... just playing. why should that make you girly? men read too... plus macho went out with denim vests, highwaters, and switchblades. it's a brave new world out there and we can have feelings now...
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