Foot fetish: will I ever see foot worship/trampling in public?

[elaine567]

You have a point but she should accept me and my fetish and who I am.

 

Why should she do that?

She will have her own set of requirements for a relationship, her own idea of what being in a relationship entails sexually.

Most of us gel sexually as most of the "mainstream" desires revolve around "normal" sex, give or take a few variations on a theme. We push the right buttons and we get the right responses.

 

Add in a foot fetish or any other type of fetish for that matter, that is unilaterally appreciated, then one partner has to accept a big part of their "sex" life is pandering to the other's fetish.

 

Fine as something "different" in a new relationship, but after a while, she will get tired of that and will build resentment.

She is going to spend time twiddling her thumbs, bored, and angry whilst you get off on idolizing her feet or her Jimmy Choos.

She will start to crave " normal" sex and you will either give in causing you to get increasingly upset, or you will split.

[Jonp219]

:lmao::lmao:

 

Right.

 

OP, I'm not understanding why this would occur in public. As I understand, this is a sexual fetish, most people have sex and do sexual things in private, unless they're exhibitionists or something, and even then, it's often illegal to indecently expose yourself or engage in sexual activities in public....sooo I'm not sure why foot fetish stuff would be any different. If people don't generally have sex or engage in sexual activities in the public eye, why would they do so with foot fetish stuff?

 

I don't think it will ever be public any time soon, but that doesn't prevent people from enjoying these things in private.

 

You know I got so lost in this thread trying to explain to the OP why this normally wouldn't happen in public. I forgot to mention that I DID see it happen in public once before!

 

It was in Union Square right here in NYC (surprise surprise). There was this middle aged man with a sign saying "Free Massage Foot Fetish" and an Asian lady walked up to him and let him lick her feet. The girl was enjoying it like nobody was looking, I think someone put the video on YouTube lol. Dude had some balls to do something like that in front of so many people. Everyone was joking and laughing, and this Asian girl is just taking it all in like she's at the spa. It was strange lol.

 

But yeah, that's the only time I've seen it in public. I hope you don't quit your job and move to NYC because I said this now OP.

[Jonp219]

Why should she do that?

She will have her own set of requirements for a relationship, her own idea of what being in a relationship entails sexually.

Most of us gel sexually as most of the "mainstream" desires revolve around "normal" sex, give or take a few variations on a theme. We push the right buttons and we get the right responses.

 

Add in a foot fetish or any other type of fetish for that matter, that is unilaterally appreciated, then one partner has to accept a big part of their "sex" life is pandering to the other's fetish.

 

Fine as something "different" in a new relationship, but after a while, she will get tired of that and will build resentment.

She is going to spend time twiddling her thumbs, bored, and angry whilst you get off on idolizing her feet or her Jimmy Choos.

She will start to crave " normal" sex and you will either give in causing you to get increasingly upset, or you will split.

 

It can ALL work if he understands that. However, something tells me he doesn't.