CallieCalling Posted July 4, 2015 Posted July 4, 2015 Long story short: one of my brothers best friends and me recently started to text He's like 36-37 so like 2 years older than me He's tall and VERY attractive. I've always had a crush on him Back when I was 15 he came over to our house swim. Guess he didn't see me but his package was imprinted in his shorts. I couldn't help myself from starting and he's caught me looking. . Anyways.. I tried flirting over the summer.. he knew it but confessed to new that nothing between us could ever happen because I'm his "best friends sister" But I could never get his package out of my head About 2-3 months ago he gave me his phone number.. we texted a lil bit but that dried up He's been with his current gf for like 3-4 years now but he says that he's tired of her and want to next her but she's dependant on him Today he came by to "see how I was doing" and asked if I need anything He fixed my door for me to I'm old enough to make up my own mind add to who I date .. so my brother and his gf doesn't matter. .. Anyways .. I wanna put myself out there and see if he'll make the moves on me But I'm terrified that he might rejectme again.... Question : what should I do to let him knew that in interested and how patient should I be??
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2015 Posted July 4, 2015 In your mid-30s you are right, your brother doesn't matter. However, his GF does matter & your failure to respect that he's been in a relationship for 3-4 years is troubling to say the least. Before you do anything remember this: if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. At most you can jokingly hint that if you were ever both single at the same time you would love to see if anything romantic could develop between you but if you do anything before his other relationship is officially over you are a home-wrecker. Don't be that woman. 2
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