Rejected by a girl, turns out she accept another guy to be her boyfriend?

[Felari]

So before I start I would say hello to everyone who read this thread. This is the first time I shared my personal experience to the public. I had a trouble to share my experience to my friends so I hope the loveshack community can answer my doubt.

 

So let's get to the point. Just like everyone else I fall in love to someone. And yes, at first she interested,and give me signals that she want more than a friend. Until the day that I confess my love to her.,She starting to play hard to get.

 

Not so long ago, I asked her would she want to be my girlfriend. She refused,however. Saying that she don't want to be in relationship for now and she don't want to be find out by her mom that she is in relationship.

 

I just happened to believe what she told me. She started to be really,really friendly to me and began to stalk my Twitter , even though i hardly use it. Oh yeah, why do I know she stalked me? The last time I use twitter is about 3 years ago,2012. She began to talk about my favorite things. It surprised me. I mean, i just recently moved and not really shared my personal information to my new schoolmate. I though there will be a second chance if I try my best by make her happy.

 

I already told you that she refuse to be in relationship with me, but she gladly accept someone to BE her boyfriend. I found out about this when her best friend texted me that she recently accept someone to be her boyfriend. At first, I don't believe it. And I text her about it (I can't met her because I'm away and can't call her either because my grandma just passed away. Sad day isn't it?). She confirms it, and wish me that i will met someone better. I think that's the last time we communicate.

 

The thing is, what should I do? I know most of people would say just move on. But to be honest, I'm confused. This is the first time I confess my feeling to someone, I never in relationship before so yes, I'm really confused. What should I do from now on? And is this kind of thing normal? I ask someone about it and she says that it isn't normal.

 

I think that's all. Once again thank you for reading my thread.

[d0nnivain]

Sadly, when many people say they don't want a GF/BF/relationship they omit the phrase "with you" from the end of that sentence. That is what she did to you. It's a white lie of sorts that helps the other person feel better about rejecting you.

 

 

As much as you were infatuated with her, you didn't love her. Unrequited love is a misnomer. You need to be in the romantic relationship to genuinely love someone. Otherwise it's only a relationship you built up in your mind.

 

 

It happens. You risked. You lost. You will get through this Hang in there and don't be afraid to try again with somebody else.