Cant get over my ex girlfriend? ?

[TheOneGuy24]

I typed this on my phone so sorry if theres any mistakes.

 

So me and my girlfriend (both 18) were in a relationship for 8 months. Our Relationship was healthy they were never any problems. We would never fight only have a little few arguments about little things once in awhile but nothing serious. Everything was going well and all then one day a few days our 8 month anniversary. She just simply cut me off saying we should be friends. Her excuse was because she was going through Alot and she Didnt want to take out her anger on Me. Most of the time in our relationship she would always take out her anger on Me for no reason when she had bad days and I Still put up with it I Never got mad at her or anything because I really loved her you know. So I said okay why not. Spring break came (the week after we broke up)and well on IG she posted a pic of a guy and her hugging saying "Your Special <3" when I saw that I literally panicked and called her about it she told me "I'm sorry I know I lied to you" and she started to cry. I clicked and i was heartbroken. After I called her back and telling her "whyd she do this" and her reply was "I don't know but I'm Sorry I know I f***ed up on you". Well me being an idiot I Said we could still be friends. So we stayed friends Spring break finished, back to school agian. Me and her had a period together and would sit next to Eachother. I already knew she was still talking to the other guy. But mostly everytime we had that period together she would always flirt with me,hold my hand and act like she still wanted me. It was going like this for the whole month of April. I would Always walk her to class everyday. Some days we would still kiss. May came and that's when she and him got in a relationship. I was depressed the whole day when I found out like wow she basically left me for another. But I kept my cool. so on she still acted the same with me the whole month of May. So she was basically cheating on her BF. she would even txt me sometimes at night using hearts and all. telling me she misses me and all the things we did . Me like an idiot would think she still wanted me. June came and still the same. then school ended after a week later* we just hanged out twice and in those two times we made out and everything like we were together. After the second time we hanged out I would text her after but she didn't reply all day or the day after so I got pissed and blew up her phone. She called me and was like "relax I was busy". I decied to tell her "how come we dont get back together if you still act like you want me. Like we even kissed a few days ago". She said "I Just wanna be friends with You Tbh". I said to her back "but why if I gave her everything I Loved you. I don't understand why". She just said "I know you did and I'm sorry for treating you like this You Didnt deserve to be treated like this". I just like "I Guess I'll text you" and I clicked. So we were texting and "I told her so when are you gonna tell Your bf you cheated on him? Or I'll tell him?" (Idiotic from me agian) she said I'll tell him next time I see him. After that She Even Told me she cheated on me with him while we were together and admitted she was a cheater. After I Was so pissed that I decided to tell him and I contacted him and sent him all the screenshots of texts. He didn't really care and started to make BS up. So the next day I texted her and she told me to "leave her alone" because she was done with me and we shouldn't be friends anymore. I was like why? She just said "because how can we be friends knowing you still like me?" After that I made no contact with her for a week. I was just normal but there was days where it got to me. She basically left me for another guy. I was always there for her, always gave her everything, never Hurted her once. Never lied to Her ,always made her happy. i put up with all her BS she threw at me. But Yet she still left for another. I can't get over her because to me she was my everything and I Truly Loved her. Now been 2 weeks and a half since this happened.I sometimes still text her long paragraphs on why she doing this to me. She doesnt reply and last time she replied saying leave me alone. Even Tho I just texted her once during the whole week lol. The last text I sent her was yesterday agian a long paragraph with the last few words saying "Youll Regret it." I Dont think about texting her anymore. She probably doesn't even care Thats why. But I'm trying to move on but I just cant it's hard for me. Any advice?

[QueenDafine]

Just leave her alone. Leave her alone for yourself because the more you pursue contact with her the more it feeds her ego and the more it hurts you and the more you'll be left thinking and wondering. Really, is she worth all the pain and worry? A girl who doesnt care about how you feel, a girl who won't even give you a decent explanation, a girl that would hurt you so easily by cheating on you, a girl who just doesn't give a ****? Nah its not worth it. And the best revenge you can get from this is to let her be with this nobody guy who doesnt even care a bit her cheating on him. She'll realize she misses the feeling of being truly cared for and lover, you'll see. And when she comes running back to you, shoot her down. Thats the best way to let her feel the pain she causes. Just don't even try with her because she is definitely not worth it. Don't worry anyway, she'll get what is coming to her.

[Chi townD]

Dude, she's a cheater and even admitted it. Like it's an achievement badge for her. OF COURSE SHE DOESN"T CARE!!! Why would she? She's got another idiot to believe in her lies. I mean, you gave him the evidence and it rolled of him like water on a ducks ass.

 

 

But, then again, maybe because he doesn't care either. To him, she's just probably another piece of ass to him. Could explain why she was still all flirty with you. She had the best of both worlds. She had you to fill her emotional needs under the guise of "friendship" and she had this other dude filling her physical needs.

 

 

Just let her go dude. She showed you and told you of her true colors. You deserve better. STOP TEXTING HER!!! You're starting to look desperate and pathetic. All you're doing to stroking her ego! "Aww...poor sap can't get over me. How sad."

 

 

Start NC and stay there. Ignore EVERYTHING that she might send at you. Post here instead of answering her. People will be here to walk you through it. Start working on yourself and make positive changes in your life. Trust me dude. There are girls out there that know how to a guy and wouldn't dream of cheating on their man. They're out there. And she's waiting for you to find her. Your Ex isn't it.