Popsicle Posted July 3, 2015 Posted July 3, 2015 (edited) I met a woman through an online dating site, we have been seeing each other for about a month. Before I met her she told me she has not slept with anyone in 2 years, she mainly focuses on taking care of her daughter, and she rarely goes out to drink any more. She told me she is mainly interested in meeting older friends who didn't live in this small ****ty town we live in. She told me she is always attracted to "bad boys" or projects.. I told her I am a good guy, a really good ****ing guy with "bad boy" tendencies which is true. She tells me she needs to hide me around her daughter for now Our texts before meeting went pretty well, nothing too crazy or sexual. So my first time meeting her, I went over to her house she cooked dinner, we talked on her couch for a couple hours (mainly me asking questions) then she grabbed my hand and took me to the bedroom we had sex.. And I gave her the worst sex I have ever done lol.. She kept calling me back, I have been giving her good sex, after a few more "dates" in the bedroom she asks me "what are we doing?" .. I told her I was open to a relationship but not 100% yet, she told me we could just enjoy each other's company and see where it goes.. Fast forward a few dates, she's talking about the future, brings her daughter over, maybe a little clingy at times, brings her massage table over and tell me I am the only guy to ever get this treatment from her. She almost always answers texts quick at work, she initiates most of the texting. Yesterday she was distant, first time she never texted good morning, or good night.. Today she texts "Good morning " we talk .. She says she was up waiting for me to come over but I never did.. She is distant most of the day.. So I decide to be spontaneous. So after work I text her and tell her I am coming over, no reply.. I get to her house and her vehicle is gone.. So I call her, it's almost 12am.. No answer.. She always answers phone right away at night when I come over, even if she is asleep. She has yet to call, I am curious to see what her story is tomorrow.. I'm not go to grill her or keep calling.. Just see what she has to say.. I apologize for making this so long. I don't know, I get the sense that you will both never commit to each other, so it doesn't matter, it'll end anyway, so just ride it out for as long as you can, but please always be honest with her. It's the respectful thing to do (you did say you were a good guy, didn't you?) HOpefully she'll be honest with you too. Edited July 3, 2015 by Popsicle
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