itstupid Posted July 3, 2015 Posted July 3, 2015 So, i am new here, and i have been reading a few posts and DUDE! Some people are having a very rough time... So i want to share an experience with you guys, a GOOD one. A couple years ago, i had this boyfriend, who was a complete ASS. Why? Because, well, i was the most cute, adorable and nice girlfriend anyone could ever ask for. But this douchebag, despite the fact that he loved me (or at least i felt like he did at that moment) cheated on me several times. The first time, he made out with at least 5 girls on a party, i found out a few days later when a friend came to me and told me one of the girls he made out with was a friend of hers. At that moment, he was my first real relationship, so i was devastated. I confronted him and he apologized, he cried, he said he promised he would never do such a thing again because he loved me and blah blah bla. (We were both in high school back then). We got back together. (stupid me) A year later, he was in college and i was a senior in high school. Well, we were perfectly okay, until... One day, THE SAME ****ING FRIEND WHO TOLD ME THE FIRST TIME, TOLD ME HE CHEATED AGAIN. His ex girlfriend was also a friend of hers, he was texting her, telling her how much he wanted to basically **** her... And not just that, also, that on one of those parties his classmates used to throw, he made out with one girl. After that, he asked for forgiveness and I DID IT AGAIN (unbelievable, i know) After a few months, i couldnt take the trust issues i had anymore and we had a big fight. He decided he wanted "time". At first, i was devastated. For months. Even more when his best friend came to me after a while and told me (she was a girl) that he would always try to hit on her, even despite the fact that they have been friends since like.. forever.. And she also told me that he told her that he wanted that time to **** around... and then he would come back. I was crushed, i won't lie. Like, WTF... I was horribly sad! I SHOULD'VE BEEN ANGRY but i was sad. WTF After a few months, i ended high school and i started going out with a group of friends of a friend of mine, they were all guys and well, i was having the greatest time with them. I even had a crush on one of them, who was the smartest guys i have ever met until today (he's still my friend and the crush is over ahahahaha) So, in my birthday, that douche texted me and we started talking again, but i had no more feelings towards him. So, we started to talk again, he would tell me about the girls he's been dating and i told him about my new friends, and well, things seemed cool. In some occasions, we would even have sex.. (3 times)... But i had no deep feelings for him anymore. If i had sex with the guy, was only because i was bored. After a while, a really HOT guy and i started talking, he was a really hot guy, everybody knew him and well, we already met a few years ago but he had a girlfriend and i had this douche bf, so we were always just friends. We started dating, and the douche found out. After a few weeks, he asked me to get back, to have a relationship with him again. After he asked me that, i laughed so ****ing hard... Because i could see karma biting his ass... He played with me, dumped me like trash... And i moved on, and just then he came back begging... In that moment, i wasn't happy, i even felt sorry for him, because he wrote me a letter, took me to the place where we met and started crying there... So yeah... I told him NO. One day, i was on a date with my... soon-to-be boyfriend... and the douche called... that got me into A HUGE PROBLEM, which i solved after i called the douche and told him to never call me again because he was causing me trouble with my date and that he should move on just like i did. he was crushed, and believe me, that was EPIC, because i never believed in karma but THAT... that was unbelievable. Until now, he still congratulates me on every birthday through his best friend (yes, the girl who told me some stuff about him)... and, well, i never answered him... SO! whats the point? if theres someone who's messing with your feelings, you need to realize that is not good for you, that you can do it, you deserve better than that... And that it will pass... And you will feel awesome after it goes away, and you will look back and laugh at it. Right now, i have this pretty awesome group of friends (the guys i told you), i have this amazing hot boyfriend (the one i was dating back then) and trust me, i FEEL GOOD:D:D:D:D When you feel like you're about to colapse, just remember... It can't get any worst. It can only get better. 2
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