egalew Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 Met a guy online. We live about 2 hours of one another. Have a great, long phone conversation. He ends it by saying, "Call anytime?" Haven't heard from him. Do I call?
smackie9 Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 Met a guy online. We live about 2 hours of one another. Have a great, long phone conversation. He ends it by saying, "Call anytime?" Haven't heard from him. Do I call? yes...........
WhatYouWantToHear Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 No. Long distance relationships without a definite time table for ending their long distanceness don't work. Save yourself the pain, don't begin this.
smackie9 Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 2 hours isn't long distance......living in another state or country is long distance....having to take a plane is long distance.
Versacehottie Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 Met a guy online. We live about 2 hours of one another. Have a great, long phone conversation. He ends it by saying, "Call anytime?" Haven't heard from him. Do I call? When was the phone call? I personally think guys that say this from the point of view that they are hedging their bets because of so much dating (especially the online types). It's kind of like they are doing a numbers game based on they won't put any effort until a woman shows significant interest. Jaded. I think it's better if the impression you made on him, makes him want to call you. Have some balls, mister. Anyway, hard to tell what context he said this in. If he's just free and spontaneous type then it's not as bad. I still lean toward letting him make the effort at the beginning. I don't like guys like this because you will see this lazy, passive behavior again and again if they feel comfortable doing it at the beginning. Feels like he wants to see how desperate you are--if i'm understanding his tone right. A guy knows what they are supposed to do if they want to go out with you.
fred123 Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 from the guys perspective i don't like calling anymore cos from my past experiences how do you know if the girl is just picking up to be polite and nice or jus tot chat as friends. i had girl turn around to me and tell me that she was only talking to me to be polite. that was hurtful so i don't call anymore and chase
joseb Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 It seems like there all these rules that we are supposed to apply. But they are contradictory The guy has to call each time Don't be the one to call each time cause that is needy and clingy Sometimes I just can't be bothered with it all!
Gary S Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 What I want to know is, why are you still concerned about a guy who did not ask you out? When they are interested, they ask to meet on the first call.
Versacehottie Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 What I want to know is, why are you still concerned about a guy who did not ask you out? When they are interested, they ask to meet on the first call. Wow, Gary, you are on fire today. I agree with most of this. He doesn't have to ask the very first call (maybe he's very shy), but yes why would you still be concerned about a guy who did not ask you out? Assuming dating site is how you met, so you both knew purpose of the call.
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