Thatguy1010 Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 Sooo she's one of those girls that don't easily orgasm. I gave her plenty of oral orgasms, finger, etc but actually never made her orgasm vaginally. She only did once and it was with a **** friend, they ****ed twice in a row (about 1 hour total) before she came. Before she got off the plateau level, she started masturbating him for about 5 minutes while they did missionary. Her hand was hitting the clit while he was penetrating her and she came that way. We can hardly do positions where I could stimulate her clit because those positions are hurting her vagina. so I told her to masturbate me when we're doing missionary but she only does it for about 30 secs before she says she's getting tired (I know she can do it for at least 5 minutes straight, which i think is weird telling me she can't). I can only stimulate her clitoris for about 1-2 minutes due to these restricted positions but she can easily masturbate herself while I penetrate her. I told her to masturbate more often while we make love, she says I'm right but doesn't do it. Is there a way to make her do it without putting some pressure over her? I'd like her to orgasm vaginally and I know she can. That's why it bothers me. thanks
Grumpybutfun Posted July 7, 2015 Posted July 7, 2015 She may not be able to...that time with her friend could have been her stimulating her clitoris. It sounds as though you are obsessed with doing this because she did it with a FWB situation and you think you must compete or that she should react to you the same way. You are putting tremendous pressure on both of you and honestly, it is only way going to make her dread sex. If you have had conversations about it and you have pushed that agenda over and over again, she may not want to explore because you are pressuring her. No one likes to feel they are an act who must perform to specifications. Let things flow organically and enjoy pleasing each other and when she feels comfortable again and sex feels good and easy to her, she may feel like masturbating to orgasm while you are inside her. Relax about it, Grumps
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