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What are the signs that two people are becoming more emotionally involved in a relationship? Are there any specific signs? Friends share lots of information so where does friendship start to turn into more? Are there indicators of investment, for want of a better way of putting it? Do questions asked and answers given change in meaningful ways?

 

As one example in my past, I think one sign was that I just knew he was going to be there. There was no question he'd be off with anyone else or spending too much time elsewhere. Also, I suppose I noticed a certain subtle possessiveness with him 'being on guard' if there were other guys present - not in a controlling way but subtle changes.

 

For me, I just felt settled with him. Nothing was formalised but I knew I wasn't looking elsewhere and I guess others picked that up too. There was also knowing I could trust him with secrets.

 

Have you got examples from your own experiences in relationships?

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I'd look for physiological stuff - accelerated heartbeat, rapid breathing, perspiration, nervousness, twinkle in the eye, etc.

 

Is this sth that you think may be happening in your life?

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How about online or phone/text only?

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Are you asking me? Should be similar, maybe not as pronounced but if you feel a little skip in your heartbeat when the Messenger or text thing goes off, sth's going on.

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